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21 Pleasantville, NJ Genderqueer, Non-binary, Androgynous

Genderqueer, Non-binary, Androgynous

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  • Ages 18–23
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:56am
Queer, Asexual
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Very often
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Fluently), Irish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Genderqueer. Zhe/Zher/Zhim. describes me better than I could put into words.

IMPORTANT: If you're looking for "success", "peace and quiet", or have a problem with a fun/experience-based lifestyle, don't even entertain the thought of a relationship with me. I am only interested in dating dynamic individuals.

Nerdy party ghost. I like depressing artsy shit and radical poetry. If there's a nerdy fandom it's probably my thing. I am the epitome of everything Taurus, and I quite enjoy a drink. Other than that I'm pretty laid back and I love to have fun, yeah!! *90's skateboard high-five* Music is my everything. I immerse myself in the Humanities, and I always enjoy talking about them. I'm a 4w5 XNFP who is Chaotic Good, haha.

I have this weird fantasy of dancing to lo-fi music with my significant other in the late hours of the night. I'm a giant romantic, sob. I'm also attracted to silent, small, secret places out in the middle of the woods only I know about. That kinda stuff makes me pretty emotional, actually. Also, gHOSTS. I love ghosts in a way I can't even begin to understand.

Other weird things about me uhh,
- Grimes is like my hero I love her so much okay
- I'm p much outrageously liberal, I'm the socialist atheist pacifist environmentalist humanist queer pagan feminist who is the enemy of 'edgy' comedians
- Again ghosts okay I just really love ghosts. And no, I don't believe in ghosts but I have like a spiritual connection with them (ahaha) do you feel me
- I really love music history! I used to do college radio and I really enjoy talking about regional scenes and genre emergence. A part of me really wishes I could live in the Rocky Mountain region in the 1990's so I could have been part of the zine culture.
- I love studying religions! Ex-Catholic and former Reform Druid as well. I guess I still really identify with Neopaganism even though I'm adamantly atheistic and irreligious. I guess I just feel like it's a huge part of who I am? Anyways, I thoroughly enjoy studying pretty much any religion! Currently reading the Bhagavad Gita.

My sexuality can be most easily described as asexual gyne-skolioromantic.

ALSO IMPORTANT: I'm very neuroatypical. I have diagnosed Major Depressive Disorder, OCD, ADHD, and High Anxiety. I have undiagnosed PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder. If that's a problem to anyone or makes you view me as anything less than human, you can fuck right off.

Big issues with me are: Gender Equality, Gender Identity, Environment, Humanism, Globalism, Socialism vs Capitalism, Ending Death Penalty, Constitutionalism, and Post-Scarcity Economics
What I’m doing with my life
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Being a literal ghost. Going to school for a Communication Major (Emergent Media) with a minor in Gender Studies.

I have a billion or so dreams about my future, but I'm still really aimless. If you're an adventurous person, we'll get along great. I've got quite a few "Hangover" moments in my life, haha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If it had to be one thing, it'd be getting people hyped up for something, or bringing people together to do a thing. I can do computers and philosophy and I'm really knowledgeable when it comes to politics, debating, and history. I'm a bleeding heart lib, I know.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Very stoner-like, but doesn't actually smoke. Always open to it, though. Also pretty off the wall, and prone to spontaneous dancing.

People assume I'm a very shy, quiet, ghosty nerd. I am not. I'm actually very sociable, just introverted. If I'm shy around you it probably means I think you're hella and I don't want you to think I'm a total loser.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catcher in the Rye, The Divine Comedy, Sharp Teeth, Lord of the Rings, The Moral Landscape, Redwall Series
Movies: Lord of the Rings, Watchmen, Titan AE, Scott Pilgrim, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Koyaanisqatsi, The Matrix, Fight Club, Nick and Norah's Infinite Playlist, Kick-Ass, The Mist, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Monty Python, Spirited Away, Kaze no Youni, Kumo no Youni, Donnie Darko, The Big Lebowski, Trainspotting
Shows: Workaholics, Walking Dead, Always Sunny, DANNY PHANTOM, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Al Jazeera, The Young Turks, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Regular Show, Adventure Time, GAME OF motherfuckin THRONES, Breaking Bad, The Sopranos, White Collar, New Girl, Better Call Saul, King of the Hill, The Eric Andre Show, Ru Paul's Drag Race, many many anime
Anime: Fate/Zero, Lucky Star, D.Gray Man, Blood+, Code Geass R2, FLCL, Darker than BLACK: Ryuusei no Gemini, Hellsing Ultimate, Trinity Blood, Panty & Stocking, Nerima Daikon Brothers, Tokyo Ghoul
Webcomics: Homestuck, Problem Sleuth, Boxer Hockey, And It Don't Stop, 8-Bit Theatre, Penny Arcade
Video Games: OFF, Kingdom Hearts, Civilization, Final Fantasy, StarCraft, League of Legends, Metal Gear Solid, KillZone, WarCraft, SaGa, The World Ends With You, No More Heroes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Internet, My Friends, Civilization, Coffee, Prose Poetry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. I'm really thoughtful, but also a little morose. I can find myself getting stuck in the trappings of my memories. Above all else, I like to wonder about the why's of everything. I also find a song to go along with whatever mood I'm in, since I binge-listen to music.

I also LOVE soaking in some quality media, independent or otherwise. I've always been fascinated with emerging trends, and am planning on getting a Communications degree.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am actually 50% Sea, 50% Weed. I also have the sex drive of a Conch Shell.
You should message me if
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you blog about fictional characters on a nonstop basis/nerd out about games. Or if you know how to cut your own hair, that's pretty radd.

You should DEFINITELY talk to me if your memories have an echo-ish sound to them, or if you like the snow, or the nighttime. Or even better, a snowy night. OR ALSO, if you love soft grunge/pastel goth~