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Endogenous2

56 / M / Straight / Available

Aurora, Colorado

His Details

Last Online
Feb 8
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Right at the moment, I am going to have to be "inactive" for a while, while I get things straight in my primary relationship!

I hope to be back soon!

My friends say I am a really nice guy. Yeah, I know, on line that is usually a euphemism for "ugly". In this case I think they really mean they like me. My picture is current and actually looks like me.

I am healthy, friendly, intelligent, a college graduate, a good talker and listener. I am in good shape, but I am not an athlete. I am 52, 5'7", thin, with a gray beard and long hair, red turning to gray.

I *am* married, and we (have had, but not at the moment) an open marriage. My wife is a wonderful person and I intend continue living and spending most of my time and life with her. She is permanently disabled, and often prefers to stay home while I do things around town. I am a "caregiver". She knows what I am doing here, and she actually "sent me out to play", but she will not be attending. (Sadly, for the moment, I can't play. Hope to be back soon...) Polyamory, of course, is always a process.

I am mostly INFP, but can shift gears to ENFP from time to time.
I like nice people, and (here comes the song lyrics) people who like people.

I am open minded about who I might meet. (I do wish I was taller!) and age or size are really not important for me. I really would just like to meet a nice woman.

I work an odd schedule, and Wednesday or Thursday afternoons might be a good time to meet. I would love to talk over lunch or coffee. Or whatever you would like.

p.s. I am quite good at acoustic guitar...

I am sweet, sensitive, and smart

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What I’m doing with my life
Working too much, but happy to be employed
Taking care of family members
Wishing I was in the mountains
Helping my friends and coworkers
Singing in Orpheus, the Pagan Choir of Colorado!

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I’m really good at
OK, I am really good at fixing all kinds of things, and I am probably the best (male) listener you will ever meet. (Hopefully, you will add to this list!)

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The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that I am long-haired, then they say something about my smile. (Yeah, I like that part...)

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
OK, music is the thing for me. I am a folk musician, but I have been in blues, country and grunge-jazz bands. Yeah, my MP3 player is a trip!

If you've noticed, I am in a choir...

I love food with good conversation!

I tend toward odd old books. (No Victorian, Please!) Lately I have found that it is easier to stick with technical/scientific books, as one can get to what you want quickly. Modern life keeps me from sitting down and reading for long periods. Anthropology seems to be a hobby at the moment.

I work in Broadcasting, so I don't do TV at home...

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The six things I could never do without
6? Wow:
Companionship
Music
a way to make music
food
water
love

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life
Love
Questioning conventions

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On a typical Friday night I am
...boring, but you should see me on a Wednesday!

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I already told you!

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30-70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
...you have an open mind and like to think.

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