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64 F San Francisco, CA

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5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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After trying online dating for a while, I feel I have learned what is really important to me in a relationship. I have learned I need a great deal of freedom and independence, probably a good deal more than most women that I know. I have a dual career---professional artist and acupressurist. I am also very involved in freestyle dance, which I attend three or four times a week and which is my form of moving meditation.
For me to want a relationship with someone, I must find them to be extremely interesting, attractive, sensual, emotionally intelligent and sensitive, and FUN to be with!.... I would like a relationship with an intelligent, kind, slim, confident, attractive, conscious and sensual man who is willing and able to be with me, totally present, to explore all levels of touch, movement, dance, playing, sensuality, intelligent conversation and emotional openness.

I love practicing my own synthesis of Yoga, Tai Chi, ballet, and contact improv at the freestyle dance venus I attend, as well as walking or bicycling in nature or around the City. I am an excellent cook, and prefer eating at home to eating out, in general. I am back in school (online) getting certified as a Holistic Health Practitioner, hopefully a kind of GP without pharmaceuticals. As you may guess, I lead a busy, full and fulfilling life.
I would love to meet an attractive, physically fit man of emotional intelligence, who is interested in a relationship of playful intimacy with me, and whose world views are at least compatible with my own…Obviously this means someone who still ENJOYS being very active, whether it is in dancing, yoga, hiking, bicycling or love-making. Since I am such a kinesthetically-oriented person, I really respond better to someone who has cared well for his body and is not overweight. I am also very open to a finding a walking partner, who can walk well and hold an interesting conversation with me at the same time......

I do love San Francisco, but I am open to relocating to a smaller, less urban and less expensive community, particularly one that I consider has a relatively active conscious/freestyle dance community, and where I could have a garden and access more nature nearby.

Please do not contact me if you are under 50, politically conservative, don’t know how to play, or don't have a recent full body picture of yourself on your profile. I appreciate honesty, and have grown a bit intolerant of online deceit.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional artist, as well as an Acupressurist back in school to get certified as a Holistic Health Practitioner. I do freestyle dance, tai chi, yoga, read, hike, bicycle, study herbs and talk and visit with friends and my daughter, love to cook healthy and interesting food, and care for my plants. At this time, I also have a residence I maintain in Nevada City, where I see my acupressure clients and live on the edge of a forest: a nice contrast to my residence in San Francisco. I am very open to meeting someone in that area.
I’m really good at
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both left and right brain thinking, touching, dancing and moving; art, cooking, helping people maintain their health, raising plants, tuning in to humans, getting into my body and having fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
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depends on WHICH people are looking!....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: authors: Patricia Briggs, Barbara Hambly, Tanya Huff, Diane Gabaldon, Robin Hobb, Dave Duncan, books on Pathworking, some mystical studies, Music: World music, devotional music, classical, instrumental, Pink Floyd, VAS, Lorenna McKennit, Sting, Chris Isaacs, native American Flute, Movies: Life on Earth, Avatar, Groundhog Day, When Harry Met Sally, The Matrix, Soapdish, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Life on Earth, Harry Potter Series, Back to the Future, Beauty and the Beast
The six things I could never do without
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unconditional love, freestyle dancing, my daughter, touching and being touched, being in and experiencing nature, my wonderful friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I really work at NOT spending a lot of time lost in my head
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
freestyle dancing in Berkeley, Nevada City, or Sebastopol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Dumb question, sorry
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 53–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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if you feel intuitively drawn to the woman you see here in picture or words