Well, it seems I have tried virtually every approach I can think of
in this small space. How does one really define oneself in a tiny
block on a web site? I am considering giving all of this up for
good and ramming into shopping carts (accidentally of course) or
dropping books in the book store or maybe just standing on my deck
naked. There has to be a more suitable way to actually make a
connection. What a world we live in. I have no real friends here,
no family and thus, no network at all. It used to be one could just
share an interest in someone and voila, a possible date could
result. I am a super busy guy and my time is the thing I value most
- next to my child of course. Wasting it is therefore a major deal
for me. Please, don't message me if you are not really interested -
I promise never to do that to anyone as well. Searching for a
promising partner is amazingly difficult. My summary: I am
considered smart, funny, have an awesome job, a car, well-read, can
cook almost anything, very clean but not OCD, able to laugh at
myself and everyone else and otherwise a pretty normal but very
creative guy. What am I missing? Am I completely unattractive? I
could lose 15 LBS but who couldn't? My hair is going gray - so
what, let it go white, it's called getting older and I earned every
one of them the hard way. LOL My wish is for a sweet, normal,
attractive lady with similar smarts and lifestyle to plead with me
for a date! Hahaha - right. Seriously, I am shy. Make the first
move and if you are really my type - I'm in and we will go out and
have a great time. I split my time now between Indianapolis and
Pittsburgh so hopefully a date will happen in one of these awesome
towns! Your move.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am working hard and have absolutely no social life.
Help. I am an avid reader, clipping off four to five books a month.
I am a painter, sculptor and photog whenever I have a chance. I am
a degreed fine artist (painter and sculptor) and I am a graphic
artist during the day.
I’m really good at
Being patient, listening to others, making people laugh, raising
one eye brow in a hilarious fashion
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall and built like a running back, I was a football player
but a really smart cool one not a jocky, jerky, Ahole.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am a rocker - though I will generally find something good in all
music, give me the good stuff - Zeppelin, Floyd, Metallica, The
Cure, Nirvana, Bush, Three Days Grace - especially for doing
chores. I read everything - seriously, I have over four thousand
volumes beautifully book cased in my home and still buy all the
time. Love all types of movies but especially retarded comedies. As
for food, ethnic flavors excite me - anything on the grill,
anything on the campfire stove - anything really. lol
The six things I could never do without
a warm comfortable shelter
loving human relationships
great books, movies and music (cheater)
long walks in the woods
spending time in or on the water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Maybe I am a hopeless - or hapless, romantic. I have this crazy
idea that you will see me here, read my words and know my heart.
You will look past exteriors. I am not twenty two now but I am
still beautiful and a man now, not a boy.
You should message me if
I am officially giving up on this "wish" list of things I want in a
mate. You should contact me if you are thoughtful and conscientious
& anything here resonates with you.