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35 • M • New York, NY
I’m looking for
- Women who like men
- Ages 25–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 4:01pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Judaism, and laughing about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
I started a small company that produces proofreading software. But that’s what I do for work. When I go out, I like to talk about anything else. Mostly that means music, dancing, cooking, food, cocktails and movies.
I do a lot of dancing, especially swing dancing. I’m usually out dancing twice per week. In London I ran a monthly blues night with a dance class and live music. In New York I go and see a lot of live music (Mona's, St Mazie, Terra Blues, and others).
And I do a lot of cooking. It’s not easy in my little, Chelsea kitchen, but I persist. I’m always on the lookout for ingredients and take an immediate liking to anyone who has advice on good produce.
I'm also an expert trip planner. The last adventure was live music in Nawlins. Before that it was whisky tasting in Scotland.
Before Sunrise, Three Colors, Grand Illusion, almost anything by Almodóvar, Rohmer, Wilder or Buster Keaton (and anything with Fred & Ginger or Cary Grant). Recently: Boyhood.
The Little Prince, Watching the English, Generation X, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Love in the Time of Cholera.
Treme (still can’t believe it got cancelled), Breaking Bad, The Wire, Twin Peaks, West Wing, Seinfeld.
Stevie Wonder, Miles Davis, Townes Van Zandt, Warren Zevon, Allen Toussaint, Tom Waits, Billie Holiday, Otis Redding, Lightnin' Hopkins, and almost anything that came out on Chess Records or Stax. I also suffer from a minor obsession with Sam Cooke.
Too many to list, but especially Vietnamese, Korean, Mexican, barbeque and deli food. I'm on a quest to find the best bagel in New York (though I doubt anything can beat the mini-everything bagel at Absolute).
I've been in New York long enough to become addicted to The Moth's storyslams. I haven't been here long enough to figure out how to get a seat!
Also, my background is in international development and I'm very political. I really want to do something that will help make sure the next President is a Democrat (whoever she may be).
In truth, some nights I have to work too. I’m my own boss, but guilt kicks in if I haven’t done enough work during the day.
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