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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 5:42am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids
My self-summary
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I am the single parent of a very cool 17 year old son (divorced). My ex lives with her fiancé in Boston. Given I've recently transitioned from a 25 year relationship, the most sensible path I've discovered is polyamory (see definition below).

I love being outside. I stay healthy, I am passionate about education, art, music, pets, nature and social justice causes. I volunteer with my son's high school PTO, I play drums & cello in a small band and I have a weekly free-speech volunteer radio show that makes me very happy.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a full-time middle school special education teacher. I have a home in the Florence section of Northampton, MA. (I also rent 2 rooms in my home for extra income.)

A few things that really interest me are: If you have a great deal of positive energy, if you value pets, nature, the arts, social justice, education, recycling, healthy eating; if you like to stay active and have some cool hobbies. The latter may sound random, but I really want to spend time with someone who is fun, intelligent and happy. I do enjoy public displays of affection, physical touch and lots of laughter!

Meeting for coffee, tea or live music for talking and even dancing would make a great first date.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being positive, laughing, cheering others up and finding the best in others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My kindness, friendly smile, sincerity, humor and passion. I've been told that if you look closely, my eyes are very cool color of brown.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino; "Brave New World" by Huxley; The Master & Margarita" by Mikhail Bulgakova; "Education Nation" by George Lucas; "Quiet" by Susan Cain; "From Panic To Power"; "Eating Animals"; "Steve Jobs" biography; "Devil's Tango"

Movies: The Conjuring, The Maze Runner, Shaun of the Dead, Silver Linings Playbook, Bourne Trilogy, Ed TV

Shows: Hinge "Grateful Dead Nights" (Northampton, MA); Fenway Park concerts: Springsteen, Paul McCartney, Foo Fighters

Comedy: Improv Asylum on Hanover St. in Boston's North End; especially their midnight (adults-only) "Raunch" show.

Music: Somos (Temple of Plenty), Toby: "The Only Thing", Bob Marley, Foo Fighters, Sublime, Bob Dylan, Cake and so many others.

Food: Organic, Italian, pescetarian....and lots of it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jogging & lifting weights
My boys
Music & art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, friendship, good jokes, my boys, staying healthy, friends, my job, volunteering, my students.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out for a nice meal, drinks, live music and dancing or hanging out with a friend. Sharing drinks, food, laughs or great fun at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I appreciate friendship, love, sponteneity and creativity, mutual happiness and satisfaction in all things, including sex.
You should message me if
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If you're thinking about it and never want to feel unfulfilled or bored again. Also, if poly is something you are open to.

polyamory, n. poly • am • ory The fact of having simultaneous close emotional relationships with two or more other individuals, viewed as an alternative to monogamy, esp. in regard to matters of sexual fidelity; the custom or practice of engaging in multiple sexual relationships with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned.