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57 Northampton, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids

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My self-summary
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I think of myself as a fun, active guy who is really young at heart (and ten years younger than my age, as a good friend recently informed me). I love being outside! I stay healthy, I am passionate about education, art, music and social causes and I even volunteer with my son's high school PTO, my Buddhist organization and I have a weekly radio show that makes me very happy.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a middle school special education teacher. I live with my 17 year old son and two tenants (one a UMass doctoral student from Berlin) in the Florence section of Northampton.

A few things that really interest me are: If you have a great deal of positive energy, if you value the arts, social justice, education (a college degree is cool), recycling, healthy eating,if you like to stay active and have some cool hobbies. The latter may sound random, but I really want to spend time with someone who is fun, intelligent, sexy and happy.

Meeting for coffee, tea or even live music would make for a great first date.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being positive, cheering others up. Drumming, trampoline, finding the best in others.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My kindness, friendly smile, sincerity, humor and passion.

A female friend wrote on 4-23-14: "You are so different from the (men) I get bombarded with...I appreciate your candid human, laid back affect. Far too many become rather intimidated, unfoundedly with my confident & outspoken nature. You are refreshing a man indeed!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "From Panic To Power", "Eating Animals", Steve Jobs biography, "Devil's Tango"

Movies: The Maze Runner, Shaun of the Dead, Silver Linings Playbook, Bourne Trilogy

Shows: Somos, Fenway Park concerts: Springsteen, Paul McCartney

Music: Bob Marley, Foo Fighters, Somos (Temple of Plenty CD), Sublime, Bob Dylan, Volbeat, Cake and so many others.

Food: Organic, Italian, vegetarian....and lots of it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My boys
Music & art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My boys, health, band, friends, job, volunteering with the PTO and radio show, students.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out for a nice meal, drinks, live music or hanging out with friends, sharing drinks, laughs and great fun. Staying in and cooking dinner for a friend, getting cozy in front of my wood stove.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Non-vanilla play can be fun. I'm also ok with an open relationship .
You should message me if
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If you're thinking about it, do it!