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EnlightenedOnes

57 Florence, MA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think of myself as a fun, active guy who is really young at heart (and ten years younger than my age, as a good friend recently informed me). I love being outside! I stay healthy, I am passionate about education, art, music and social causes and I even have a volunteer radio show that makes me very happy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently a middle school special education teacher. I live with my 17 year old son and a tennant (UMass doctoral student from Berlin) in the Florence section of Northampton.

A few things that really interest me are: If you have a great deal of positive energy, if you value the arts, social justice, education (or even have a graduate degree), recycling, healthy eating, if you have faith in yourself & others, if you like to stay active and have some cool hobbies. The latter may sound random, but I really want to spend time with someone who is fun, intelligent, sexy and happy.

Meeting for coffee, tea or even live music would make for a great first date.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, being positive, cheering others up. Drumming, trampoline, hula hooping....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My kindness, friendly smile, sincerity, humor and passion.

A female friend wrote on 4-23-14: "You are so different from the (men) I get bombarded with...I appreciate your candid human, laid back affect. Far too many become rather intimidated unfoundedly with my confident & outspoken nature. You are refreshing a man indeed!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: "From Panic To Power", "Eating Animals", Steve Jobs biography, "Devil's Tango"

Movies: Silver Linings Playbook, Bourne Trilogy

Shows: Fenway Park concerts

Music: Bob Marley, Foo Fighters, Somos (Temple of Plenty CD), Sublime, Bob Dylan, Volbeat, Cake and so many others.

Food: Organic, Italian, vegetarian....and lots of it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friendships
Chanting
Jogging
My boys
Music & art
Laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My boys, my health, my band, friends, my job, volunteering with the PTO, my radio show, my students.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out for a nice meal, drinks, live music or hanging out with friends, sharing drinks, laughs and great fun. Staying in and cooking dinner for a friend, getting cozy in front of my wood stove.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Non-vanilla play can be fun. I'm also open to polyamory.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. If you're thinking about it. (If so, do it.)
2. If are open to building a relationship with someone who is 2 full years peacefully separated and signing divorce paperwork in Dec. 2014. (My ex lives in Boston with her boyfriend.)