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45 Menlo Park, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:28pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Note: Apparently OKCs algo doesn't allow for paradoxes. Deeply compassionate but only a tad kinky, rarely arrogant and definitely not sloppy.

Extroverted introvert, reverent and irreverent. Strong sense of purpose and insatiably curious. Disciplined, hard working and lazy. Magician in the Jungian archetypes.

Doing my best to meet life with courage, creativity and humor. Freedom being the opposite of fear, I push myself to act whenever it arises. Forever studying, learning and maturing. I never pass up a college campus, library or beautiful architecture...or any beauty for that matter. Rec: Burlingame library.

I love challenges and new experiences. Adaptable, lived on both coasts and the Midwest. Road tripped through 40 states and Canada and biked 450 mi through Vermont at 14. I've climbed 65 mountains up to 21,000 ft in Bolivia, sometimes through whiteouts and 80 mph winds.

Adventured through 17 countries (though not much of late since turning startup workaholic). I've biked to work in -10 and ripped the handle off a car door in -28. Listened to countless Dharma talks, read and re-read spiritual books and experienced moments of 'perfect' stillness, contentment and joy on retreats.

Grew up travelin' in a Westfalia with six plus a standard poodle. Witnessed the world's first snowboarding race. Lived in a house in a Hollywood movie. I've worked with billionaires and survived multiple near death experiences: climbing, mountain biking...and divorce.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing the things that are most fulfilling, living fully and pursuing my passions. I haven't bought a TV yet.

Going to men's group Tuesday nights to talk about life - the good, the bad and the ugly. Complimenting strangers. Hanging laundry. Living equally in the practical and spiritual realms.

Getting teary eyed at the majestic grace of a hawk on a fence post. Pausing to take in the unspeakable beauty of morning sky.

Hosting couchsurfers from around the world, including amazing guys like this...

Female radiance, beauty, form and sweetness truly moves and inspires me. First thing people usually notice is that my civilized demeanor and kind eyes don't quite fit my less than innocent curiosity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Effortlessly navigating the backcountry and singing The Smiths. Getting lost in the city. Making people laugh and imitating people. Being healthy and fit. Talking about feelings (I know, I know).

Coming up with cartoons while not being able to draw. Being intimate with life. Saying yes and no. Not taking things personally. Listening and meeting people where they are (my cat was a great teacher).

Dancing with life. Living from the death of the experience. Bringing fun, energy and humor with me and relishing activities as an end in themselves. Ravishing my partner?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Of Human Bondage (could be kinky but it’s not), The Way of the Superior Man, Angela’s Ashes, Bobo’s in Paradise, A Path With Heart, The Boardman Tasker Omnibus.

Atonement, Bananas, There Will Be Blood, The Bothersome Man, Chicago, House of Games, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Love & Human Remains, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, In Treatment, Game of Thrones.

Pete Townshend, Murder City Devils, Sixteen Horsepower, The Police, Ray LaMontagne, Built to Spill, The The, The Kills, The Replacements, The Pixies

Whole, no-fuss food. Particularly fond of Asian and the beauty and elegance of chopstix.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First light filtering through the trees outside my bedroom window while birds sing rapturously
The pregnant anticipation of coffee brewing in my kitchen
The sweet, sensual beauty of the female form (bears repeating)
Conversation and laughter with family and friends over dinner and drink with music filling in the harmony
Blue between the branches, dew on the grass and wind blowing through the leaves
The exotic sounds, smells and tastes of travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This fascinating, crazy, beautiful world we live in
How to squeeze every drop out of the human body and mind
How the world has so many challenges while most of us plea innocence
My next adventure… somewhere new? Somewhere I’ve been but need to see again?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After exchanging work clothes for gym clothes, I like to work out and take a hot shower then unwind with a friend for a beer or wine after a mad week in the startup world. Before long, I'm hungry for a local hole-in-the-wall with good food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OCD about wiggle room in my socks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The type of woman I find attractive tends to be smart, fit, energetic, dynamic and has sexy, small-ish breasts and likes to laugh.

She's in the inquiry and her eyes shine with inner fire. She's not a victim and knows how to ask for what she wants, which she understands is a gift to men. She likes my full life because hers is, too.

Of course, none of what either of us have said matters unless there's chemistry. Message me and let's find out...🛀