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45 M Menlo Park, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:07pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Extroverted introvert. Confident yet humble, strong sense of purpose/goals and insatiable curiosity. Doing my best to meet life with courage, creativity and humor. Facing my fears and living just beyond my edge. Forever studying and learning.

Love women. Every age, race, hair and skin color. Everything about women. From their radiant energy, power and deep wisdom to their emotional roller coaster to never-ending testing of my strength and reliability. Wouldn't have it any other long as there is some consciousness within the chaos. To me, all male creativity springs from a deep desire to merge with the female form. To be one with female beauty.

A recovering 'nice guy', people pleasing perfectionist. I’ve never saved a woman and never will. I won’t make you happy, fulfilled or content. I will let you down.

But I hope to make you feel like a goddess and a queen. A rock - stable and grounded - so you can finally trust and let go. I set boundaries and call bullshit when necessary - we both want and need this. I embrace the authentic feminine but don't put up with unconscious crap. I will challenge you and support your growth and ask you to do the same.

Never cheated on a woman and never will. I love indulging in feminine beauty and energy without feeling the need to pursue it. Being impeccable and satisfied with one woman is empowering and immensely rewarding. Please don't misunderstand me, I love but don't worship women.

Bonus if you love college campuses and libraries.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
When I'm lucky, hanging out with guys like this... Gotta love Couchsurfing.

Doing the things that are most fulfilling. Never bought a TV and don't read magazines or newspapers.

Kicking butt - and getting my butt kicked - running a small consulting business. Taking care of my body, mind and physical and emotional needs. Striving for balance but forever up/down, expansion/contraction.

Staying connected to family and friends. Making brief but meaningful connections - from acquaintances to homeless to grocery clerks. Learning to cook. Okay, that’s a stretch. Living simply and richly.

Fearful of being found out I'm a fraud, so inadvertently give impression I've got it all together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being honest when I'm not lyin'. Getting knocked down. Bouncing back. Laughing. Making others laugh. Supporting others' growth. Equally adept in the city and backcountry. Calling hypocrisy. Opening up my lover with persistence and humor when she’s shut down. Juggling. Coming up with cartoons while not being able to draw. Being intimate. Saying yes and no. Not taking things personally.

Dancing with life. Living from the death of the experience. Enjoying activities as an end in themselves. Ravishing my lover - spiritually, emotionally and physically. Seeing the grace and beauty that surrounds us. Witty banter.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most frequent comments about height, body/legs, great conversation, intelligence, kindness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Of Human Bondage (could be kinky but it’s not), The Way of the Superior Man, Angela’s Ashes, Bobo’s in Paradise, A Path With Heart, The Boardman Tasker Omnibus.

Three Colors Trilogy, Atonement, Bananas, The Bothersome Man, Chicago, House of Games, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Love & Human Remains, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, In Treatment

Pete Townshend, Broken Bells, Muse, Sixteen Horsepower, The Police, Ray LaMontagne, Built to Spill, Morrissey, The The, U2, The Kills, The Replacements, The Pixies

Whole, no-fuss food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The same things I thought about yesterday
Dying without regret
Full expression of the masculine
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for dinner, drinking wine, sleeping in a tent, Meetup Soak & Social, watching a movie, listening to music...

Is it about the content of the experience or our experience of the content?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OCD about wiggle room in my socks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're leading a creative, spontaneous, evocative life
Embrace the beauty, mystery and messiness of life and relationship
See clearly
Able to be content and fulfilled by yourself
You're fit
You're a fishwife, hussy or tart (hopefully you have a sense of humor)