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45 Menlo Park, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
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Last Online
Today – 3:09am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Note: Apparently OKCs algo doesn't allow for paradoxes. I'm deeply compassionate but only a tad kinky, rarely arrogant and definitely not sloppy.

Extroverted introvert, reverent and irreverent. Strong sense of purpose and insatiably curious. Disciplined, hard working and lazy. Doing my best to meet life with courage, creativity and humor. Freedom being the opposite side of fear, I nudge myself to take action whenever fear arises. Forever studying, learning and maturing. I never pass up a college campus, library or beautiful architecture...or any beauty for that matter. If you haven't yet been to the Burlingame library, it's worth a visit.

Love challenges and seek new experiences, even if I'm certain what it'll be like. Adaptable, I've lived on both coasts and the Midwest and road tripped through 40 states and Canada. Biked 450 mi through Vermont at 14. I've climbed 65 mountains up to 21,000 ft in Bolivia, sometimes through whiteouts and 80 mph winds. Adventured through 17 countries (though not much of late since I turned startup workaholic). I've biked to work in -10 and ripped the handle off a car door in -28. I've listened to hundreds of hours of Dharma, experienced 'perfect' stillness, contentment and joy on meditation retreats.

I've worked with billionaires, regularly host couchsurfers and survived multiple near death experiences, including climbing, mountain biking and divorce. Female radiance, beauty, form and sweetness truly moves and inspires me.

The first thing people usually notice is that my civilized demeanor and kind eyes don't quite fit with my less than innocent curiosity.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing the things that are most fulfilling, living fully and pursuing my passions. I haven't bought a TV yet and rarely read magazines or newspapers. Didn't even know the Giants were in the World Series.

Going to men's group Tuesday nights to talk about life - the good, the bad and the ugly. Crying in response to the majestic grace of a hawk on a fence post or the dignity of a woman slowly making her way through a restaurant with a walker.

Exploring my sexuality - for most of us there's a vast, untapped reservoir of passion, pleasure and intimacy awaiting. Vulnerability is huge turn on.

When I'm lucky, hanging out with guys like this...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Effortlessly navigating the backcountry. Getting lost in the city. Making people laugh. Being the Magician Jungian archetype. Being healthy and fit. Talking about feelings (I know, I know).

Coming up with cartoons while not being able to draw. Being intimate with life. Saying yes and no. Not taking things personally. Listening and meeting people where they are (my cat was a great teacher).

Dancing with life. Living from the death of the experience. Bringing fun, energy and joy with ne and relishing activities as an end in themselves. Ravishing my partner?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Of Human Bondage (could be kinky but it’s not), The Way of the Superior Man, Angela’s Ashes, Bobo’s in Paradise, A Path With Heart, The Boardman Tasker Omnibus.

Three Colors Trilogy, Atonement, Bananas, The Bothersome Man, Chicago, House of Games, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Love & Human Remains, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, In Treatment

Pete Townshend, Broken Bells, Muse, Sixteen Horsepower, The Police, Ray LaMontagne, Built to Spill, Morrissey, The The, U2, The Kills, The Replacements, The Pixies

Whole, no-fuss food. Particularly fond of Asian and the beauty and elegance of chopstix.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First light filtering through the trees outside my bedroom window while birds sing rapturously
The pregnant anticipation of coffee brewing in my kitchen
The sweet, sensual beauty of the female form (bears repeating)
Conversation and laughter with family and friends over dinner and drink with music filling in the harmony
Blue between the branches, dew on the grass and wind blowing through the leaves
The exotic sounds, smells and tastes of travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This fascinating, crazy, beautiful world we live in
How to squeeze every drop out of the human body and mind
How the world has so many challenges while most of us plea innocence
My next adventure… somewhere new? Somewhere I’ve been but need to see again?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After exchanging work clothes for gym clothes, I like to work out and take a hot shower then unwind with a friend for a beer or wine after a mad week in the startup world. Before long, I'm hungry for a local hole-in-the-wall with great food - Chinese, Pho, Thai, Singaporean.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OCD about wiggle room in my socks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The type of woman I find attractive tends to be smart, fit and energetic and has a good sense of humor.

She's in the inquiry and her eyes shine with inner fire. Her smaller breasts are sexy, and she can keep up during conversations that extend beyond the latest celebrity scandal. She's ok with my full life.

Of course, none of this matters unless there's chemistry. Message me and let's find out...

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