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48 M New York, NY

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Mostly anything
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
"life has given such a beautiful opportunity for the moment... use this time well, to completely rest in yourself... be secure in yourself... when the time is right, life will bring you a beautiful surprise... someone so suited to you... you don't have to go searching." ~ mooji

native new yorker, am a professional artist living and working in my manhattan studio for the past 25 yrs. my art education has essentially been self taught. guided and encouraged by my late beautiful mother (it's been 8 yrs, but her presence remains very much alive, deep within my heart), a gifted artist in her own right, my inherent talent developed on its own. my dramatically oversided 8 ft sq celebrity portraits have always been the highlight of the annual howl! festival, art around the park.

am kind, open, compassionate with an edge... self inquirer... lone wolf... with a close (small) circle of friends... don black attire (w touch of wine red) leather jacket, skinny jeans, boots... enjoy singing in and out of the shower... have been known to serenade from time to time, so watch out, a little elvis (wise men say...), dont say i didnt warn ya... also really enjoy dancing (in my apt), tho rarely do i ever go, hard to find that right partner to be in-synch with...

oh yeah, did I mention I was a yankees fan? die hard, they broke my heart last season, but have high hopes for this one. wanted to be a pro baseball player so bad when I was a teenager, until i realized I was much better at pretending to be one... so i went into acting (studied at h.b. studio for 8 yrs), which didnt quite go according to plan either... oh the pressures of having to be someone.

i'm a nyc walker... i walk everywhere; parks, the river, across the bridge, have an aversion to public transportatation, cant drive (hey, i'm a new yorker)... also like to curl up at home, with lifes beautiful surprise, snuggled securely in my manly arms, watching classic kung fu movie's.... now thats living!
What I’m doing with my life
"i leave my life alone, i let it run it's course according to destiny... i remain true to who i am" ~ maharajah

I watch mooji video's on youtube every morning to help me realize my true Self.
I’m really good at
playing freeze tag with my friends amazing 7 yr old daughter (was her babysitter for over a yr) ... somehow i'm always 'it'...

being a big kid at heart, i tend to share a special bond with children.
The first things people usually notice about me
seems on this site it's, "I can't believe you're 48" more like, "i can't believe you're so old" ... getting better with age, like fine wine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
film buff (managed an indie video store for 15 yrs , sadly closed)... can go on & on talking movies...

enter the dragon, saturday night fever, lords of flatbush, planet of the apes, willy wonka, rebel without a cause, clockwork orange, pulp fiction, billy jack, taxi driver ... recently; blue is the warmest color

music plays an integral role.... am often making eclectic mixes to paint, dance, nunchuck & sleep to (oh yes, and with the right parnter shhh).

elvis, doors, beatles, sinatra, billie holiday, isaac hayes, tom jones, bee gees, donna summer, danzig...

food: fuji apples, bananas, peanut butter, popcorn, scrambled eggs, breaded chicken breasts, burgers, potatoes...

tv shows: freaks & geeks, ancient aliens, green hornet... am currently into the bates motel

books: surrender & resolve by gangaji, little prince (dont read much, I know, deal breaker amongst the ladies, more a visualist, however, books like these, catch my attention)
The six things I could never do without
being, self, truth, beauty, freedom & most of all love

"dont pay attention to doubts. nobody can explain the quiet place. stay quiet and trust this" ~ mooji
I spend a lot of time thinking about
not thinking... as bruce lee once said "don't think feel... it is like a finger pointing to the moon... don't concentrate on the finger or you'll miss all that heavenly glory."
On a typical Friday night I am
slipping into unconsciousness
to have another kiss
another flashing chance at bliss
another kiss, another kiss

~ 'crystal ship', jim morrison (paraphrased a bit, but you get the point)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that i work as a freelance nude figure model (for art school).... not so private, but it does get a raised eyebrow from time to time, seldom do i mention it... I find posing nude in front of a roomfull of strangers to be quite liberating actually... one oughta try it sometime, although it tends to get drafty.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are open to 'tame'...

"what does that mean--tame?" asked the little prince... " it means to establish ties" replied the fox. "to establish ties?" pondered the little prince. "Just that," said the fox. "To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world . . ."

The fox gazed at the little prince, for a long time. "please--tame me!" he said.

- little prince