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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:28pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Enthusiast. Omnivore.

Note: I'm visiting NYC during the month of October for work. If I show up on your 'nearby' or 'visitors' but still have a Seattle location, that's what's up
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I program mobile apps for a living but I promise promise promise not to dick with my phone even a little bit while we're out on a date together, okay?

Before that I used to be a scientist, which is a boss job title, but the steady, low-intensity heartbreak of R&D eventually burnt me out. Other previous lives include: web dev, student, production artist, computer lab babysitter, and high-speed pizza delivery specialist.

Outside of employment I spend as much time as possible collaborating on projects with my friends -- installation-scale art and social events, mainly. I go out a lot but reserve time alone too. I keep busy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Interpreting "favorite" as recently enjoyed rather than formative because, oh my god, we were all super into the exact same ten books in high school.

Via, my most-played artists over the past three months as of late winter 2015. Alphabetized to leave in some mystery:
Andy Stott, Björk, The Books, Broadcast, Charli XCX, Clark, Clipse, The Dodos, Grand Archives, Kiasmos, Run the Jewels, S, Sleater-Kinney, Tin Man, Waxahatchee

Similarly, here is the latest page of recent books copied off my Goodreads account, recency and ratings redacted.
* A Book of Common Prayer, Joan Didion
* As I Lay Dying, William Faulkner
* CivilWarLand in Bad Decline, George Saunders
* Death & Co: Modern Classic Cocktails, David Kaplan
* A Good Man is Hard to Find and Other Stories, Flannery O'Connor
* The Heart is a Lonely Hunter, Carson McCullers
* Interpreter of Maladies, Jhumpa Lahiri
* The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven, Sherman Alexie
* Song of Solomon, Toni Morrison
* Wolf in White Van, John Darnielle

My taste in movies leans toward artsy SF and good comedy -- good writing in general, really. Also, Sergio Leone.

I am pretty into food and drink, whether sought out from professionals or built by hand.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Truth, beauty, charm, and strangeness. Gettin' on up, and getting down.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Non-state actors, la débrouillardise, dark networks, and post-nationality.

Curation as a creative act.

What I am about to get up to in the kitchen.

Artifacts which grow better with use, rather than worse: leather accessories, predictive text, and so forth. I have a thing for 'em.

My friends.


You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you are sweet but hungry. If there's a chip on your shoulder and you have something to prove. (but not until after brunch)


They should totally break out a disclaimer section because everybody stuffs theirs here, heh. Thus, my DISCLAIMER: My non-monogamous outlook is a permanent feature rather than a phase. Since that kind of thing can be a massive deal-breaker on both sides, let's be respectful and awesome and neither of us waste the other's time if it will, ok?