I'd really like to dance more, run more, do ceramics again, cook more, learn more about beer & wine, write more, see more movies, and walk more.
I am a proudly polyamorous person, and want my relationships to be always open. I like meeting new people, and plan to continue to do it forever. I like polyamory for many reasons, including that I like having sex with multiple people. But probably the biggest reason I am poly is that I am a radical individualist. I like doing different things with different people, having quiet partners and loud ones, being intimate with optimists and pessimists, with fast movers and people who take it slow. I enjoy being introduced to new activities by new people, but I don't end up liking everything, and no-one likes everything I do. And that's a good thing, because it means I get to have a diverse set of friends and partners.
Although I currently have two boyfriends, one lives out of town, and the other is the "keep it casual" type. This past summer, my partner of three and a half years dumped me. I'm getting past that tough breakup, and looking to the future, so right now, the type of partnership I'm looking for is the intimate type. Of course, intimate partnerships are built over the long term, take a serious investment of time and energy, on top of awesome compatibility. So as I'm dating, I'm open to how any given relationship turns out, be it a friendship, a low key relationship, or an intimate partnership. I like having good people in my life, however they happen to fit in my life. But what I'm primarily looking for is a person I can spend a fair amount of time and energy on and with. If what you're looking for is a causal sex partner, keep on looking: our goals are unlikely to match up at this time.