Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


33 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm never quite sure what to say here so I guess I'll just bullshit something out. ;-)

I have often felt that I'm a bit of a square peg in a round hole.
Some difficulties in my past have encouraged my intuition to become strongly expressed (Jungian typology). I am so intuitive that I sometimes follow my intuition to the detriment of practicality, preferring to follow my heart rather than do what is expected of me socially. By that I don't mean that I sometimes streak naked through the streets or anything, I just mean, for instance, that I would rather be an impecunious bohemian craftsman than a middle class drone. No offense intended to those who are happy with a typical middle class lifestyle, it just isn't for me.

I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman whom I deeply love and admire. (Epicurean_Missy) Missy and I are very committed to our lives together but we are at a stage in our lives and relationship where we would like to explore a broader idea of what our relationships can be.

We recently moved to the city and don't know many people here yet. We have gypsy-ed around quite a bit in the last several years but it looks like we're going to be settling here in L.A. for a long while. Maybe for the long haul. Now we get the pleasure of meeting new people and making new friends. ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Basically, being creative and philosophical while trying to figure out where I fit into things. More specifically, being a bohemian craftsman. Currently, I'm working on furnishing and decorating our new apartment with as much repurposed material as I can, i.e. building and rebuilding furniture. I'm trying to make it cozy and homey with a kind of shabby-chic style that is also well suited to my craftsman needs (mostly jewelry creation). It's a bit of a challenge but I love designing new homes!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being bohemian. Finding treasures at secondhand shops. Turning some of those treasure and other discarded materials into art/jewelry. Reinventing things. Tinkering, especially with old electrical and mechanical things. Interior design. Listening. Throwing parties, especially dinner parties. Training cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My fedora: I rarely leave the house without one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I have great respect for books, for their ability to teach, and their ability to lead you to thoughts, emotions, and perspectives you may not have otherwise experienced. Unfortunately, I'm dyslexic and have difficulty reading so I haven't read nearly as much as I would like to have. :-\ Some books that I have enjoyed are: On Bullshit, The Abuse of Evil, The Secrets of Happiness, Awareness, The Alchemist, Tricks of the Mind, Outliers, Blink, Ender's Game, The Count of Monte Cristo, Dracula, The Freedom Manifesto. Most recently I read (listened to) David and Goliath... by Malcolm Gladwell, which helped me realize how much I've been in denial about having dyslexia.

Movies: I love to watch movies, but my favorites are few and far between. Some of these are: V for Vendetta, The Usual Suspects, The Butterfly Effect, Fight Club, SLC Punk, The Count of Monte Cristo, Flawless, The Island, Addams Family (+Values), Seeking a Friend For The End Of The World.

Shows: Star Trek (most of them), Firefly, Simpsons, That 70's Show, Better Off Ted, Broad City, Archer.

Music: I love LOTS of music. Music is such a big and important part of life! It can enhance or change your mood. It can elicit thought and creativity. I like at least a little bit of pretty much all genres of music, but I LOVE Jazz.

Food: I love good food! Especially dishes with a healthy balance of produce and protein. I try to keep my consumption of red meat to a minimum.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
Lucky Number Seven ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where humanity is going as a whole, large scale behavioral patterns, and the next stage of human evolution.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either enjoying life with friends or doing the types of things I'm inclined to do on any other given night of the week. Being a Bohemian means that I am not limited to only have fun on the weekends. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a vampire. But not one who has been bitten and turned. No. I was born this way. Some of my earliest memories are of the calmness of my neighborhood as I stared out of my bedroom window to the world of darkness outside. Or of playing in the sandbox in our backyard under the indirect light from the nearby baseball field until the last stragglers had gone home and the lights went out.

Of course, I'm not a real vampire. ~_^ I am just being dramatic for fun. I don't drink blood or have super powers or anything cool like that but I am a lifelong night dweller.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The idea of making friends on the Internet has always appealed to me, although I've never done it. I guess it just seems adventurous to make a new friend that you don't know through any particular social connection; to perhaps find a kindred spirit to connect with among the nameless crowds that we are constantly surrounded by and part of.

Life is about adventure. Adventure is about new experiences. I'm ready to adventure! :-) I want to explore the city. I want to find the best parks, picnic spots, short hikes, museums, art walks, free concerts\events, etc. etc. Are there any adventurous spirits out there who would like to explore with me?

I also very much enjoy chilling at home. I love to host dinner parties, cocktail parties, etc. And, of course, I'm happy to just hang out with and enjoy the company of my favorite people. ^_^

All I want is to make some new friends and let those friendships take whatever course they will.

If anything you have read here has piqued your interest or curiousoty, send me a message. ;-) ~W~