Alright, a bit about me. Firstly, I am not lonely being single. I have several wonderful friends in the area, and between them and my job I never want for company (I am also an introvert and do very well by myself for extended periods of time.) I hope you also do well solo. I am not willing to be the person that makes you feel complete as an individual.
I cook (well) I write, I don't smoke, I have a sense of humor so dark it might seem like I'm not joking (I am... probably.) I'm also impatient when it comes to baking - if the dough has to set in the fridge before I bake it, I will probably bake it less often. When I want homemade cookies, I want them soon. Now. Cookies.
I am a kinkster. If you don't know what that means, please ask! :) I promise it's not like 50 Shades of Bullshit, that's straight up abuse and. GAH!. It's not like that. Ask. I have references that I can point you towards that are word books written by sane people.
All that said, kink is an important part of my life and sexuality- and since I don't mind being single, something I'm willing to wait for in a partner. If you are extremely against kink / bdsm / D/s, then I'm probably not your guy. No big deal, move along, nothing to see here :D
If that doesn't scare you away, please continue reading.
My passion is writing. I'm writing lots of stuff - my first novel is being actively drafted, and I've got at least one novel and one novella in the chute right behind the first novel. It's a bit intimidating for me to have so many words unwritten, but at least I have material.
I also write about being a paramedic and would like to release an essay anthology at some point. I've made many people cry with my paramedic essays. If you want to read one of them, you have been warned.
So yes, me in the TL;DR format (but that's probably not good if you want to skip my writing since... well... I write a lot.): tall, scary dark sense of humor, kinky, paramedic, writer, absurdist.