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34 M Oakland, CA

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Yesterday – 9:37am
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Mostly vegetarian
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English (Fluently), Thai (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Okay), Portuguese (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I've worked in education and on environmental projects in the developing world, lectured at a few universities in the US, traveled to 30 countries, played and recorded experimental music and and have an anthropology and science background; PhD in the works;
What I’m doing with my life
Recently returned to the Bay Area after a decade in the SE Asain jungle (and London) and trying to figure things out.
Biking around.
Looking for trouble.
Wondering where the Bay Area glam/avant-garde scene is.
Looking for you.
I’m really good at
Tetris, cooking, discussing developmental politics and collecting music from all over the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I love glitter? I do, I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Oryx and Crake/Atwood, Sexing The Cherry/Jeanette Winterson, Death Kit/Susan Sontag, The Fat Man In History/Peter Carey, Invisible Cities/Calvino, The Oresteia/Aeschylus (or should it be the Theban trilogy by Sophocles? Tough call), Girl In The Flammable Skirt/Aimee Bender, Stories/Amy Hempel, The Ancestor's Tale/Dawkins, anything by Clifford Geertz or Benedict R. O. Anderson or ee cummings; Joan Didion was the first woman I ever loved; and take your pick of classic SciFi.

MOVIES: Brothers Quay, Aquirre - The Wrath of God, Soy Cuba, The Fog Of War, Acts Of Killing, Brazil, Welcome To The Dollhouse, Top Gun, Happiness, City Of Lost Children, Les Amants Du Pont-Neuf, House/Hausu, A Clockwork Orange, Breakfast Club, My Own Private Idaho, Nostalgia For The Light, Thirst, L'Avventura, ...

MUSIC: The Knife, Stina Nordenstam, MF Doom, J.S. Bach, El-P, Gil Scott-Heron, Anthony Braxton, Gry, Cannibal Ox, Ammoncontact, Bonnie "Prince" Billy, Boredoms, Throbbing Gristle, John Cage, Carcass, Cat Power, PJ Harvey, Ghédalia Tazartès, Chris & Cosey, CocoRosie, Smiths, Bodega Pop, Flying Lotus, Erik Satie, Lou Harrison, Tricky, Duran Duran, The Mars Volta, Beck, Macy Gray, Magma, ....and Michael Jackson.

FOOD: I cook a lot of Asian and Spanish and South Indian food and try to make everything as spicy as humanly possible.
The six things I could never do without
Glitter, books, nice speakers, my bike, wine...and 1 more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The politics of the developing world, the sun, and where I'm going in the next hour.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying the company of friends and doing something interesting.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Any of this interests you.