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  • Ages 21-50
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Today – 5:33pm
Special Diet
English (Fluently), Thai (Fluently), Ancient Greek (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've worked in education and on environmental projects in the developing world, lectured at a few universities in the US, traveled to 30 countries, played and recorded experimental music and and have an anthropology and science background; PhD in the works;
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently returned to the Bay Area after a decade in the SE Asain jungle (and London) and trying to figure things out.
Biking around.
Looking for trouble.
Wondering where the Bay Area glam/avant-garde scene is.
Looking for you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tetris, cooking, discussing developmental politics and collecting music from all over the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I love glitter? I do, I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Oryx and Crake/Atwood, Sexing The Cherry/Jeanette Winterson, Death Kit/Susan Sontag, The Fat Man In History/Peter Carey, Invisible Cities/Calvino, The Oresteia/Aeschylus (or should it be the Theban trilogy by Sophocles? Tough call), Girl In The Flammable Skirt/Aimee Bender, Stories/Amy Hempel, The Ancestor's Tale/Dawkins, anything by Clifford Geertz or Benedict R. O. Anderson or ee cummings; Joan Didion was the first woman I ever loved; and take your pick of classic SciFi.

MOVIES: Brothers Quay, Aquirre - The Wrath of God, Soy Cuba, The Fog Of War, Acts Of Killing, Brazil, Welcome To The Dollhouse, Top Gun, Happiness, City Of Lost Children, Les Amants Du Pont-Neuf, House/Hausu, A Clockwork Orange, Breakfast Club, My Own Private Idaho, Nostalgia For The Light, Thirst, L'Avventura, ...

MUSIC: The Knife, Stina Nordenstam, MF Doom, J.S. Bach, El-P, Gil Scott-Heron, Anthony Braxton, Gry, Cannibal Ox, Ammoncontact, Bonnie "Prince" Billy, Boredoms, Throbbing Gristle, John Cage, Carcass, Cat Power, PJ Harvey, Ghédalia Tazartès, Chris & Cosey, CocoRosie, Smiths, Bodega Pop, Flying Lotus, Erik Satie, Lou Harrison, Tricky, Duran Duran, The Mars Volta, Beck, Macy Gray, Magma, ....and Michael Jackson.

FOOD: I cook a lot of Asian and Spanish and South Indian food and try to make everything as spicy as humanly possible.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Glitter, books, nice speakers, my bike, wine...and 1 more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The politics of the developing world, the sun, and where I'm going in the next hour.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the company of friends and doing something interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll just have to ask.
You should message me if
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Any of this interests you.