I'm very easy going and accepting of others. I'm definitely a lover
not a fighter. I've got a warm personality and my friends and
coworkers tell me I've got a great sense of humor. I love the
internet and am a bit of a geek in that respect. I really like
cooking and art (especially sculpture). Dancing is fun sometimes
but it really depends on the music and my state of mind at the
I'm very easy to get along with. Dates tend to be really pleasant
but I have to admit that it gets tiring if a date ends up being an
extended interview. There are only so many times you can be asked
the same 20 questions without any other interesting conversation! I
don't mind deep conversations and prefer them to conversation about
sports or politics in which I have almost no interest.
When it comes to sex, I'm very open minded but not pushy. I
typically make the first move about 50% of the time. If I'm not
into something, I'll let you know. Feel free to ask questions
because I'm not afraid to talk about sex in any way.
I'm in the process of reinventing myself and look forward to fresh
ideas and meeting people with different perspectives.
A relationship is not out of the question but I'm not really into
forcing that to happen. I think if a few dates have gone by and one
or the other person would feel hurt by dating someone else, then it
would be a good time to discuss it. I'm not afraid of talking about
feelings and admire that quality in others as well!
What I’m doing with my life
I work in an Internet Marketing firm and work on websites and
client services which is convenient because I love computers. I am
the client retention specialist in my company. I've been working in
the industry for about 5 years now and before that I have had
experience in retail, nightclubs, and fine dining.
I’m really good at
Cooking, negotiation, drawing, and conversation. Laughing and being
silly isn't really a skill but a default personality setting for
The first things people usually notice about me
My height! Then probably my smile and story telling abilities. I
like the little lines I've got from smiling. They're like trophies!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like sci-fi and fantasy books for entertainment. Ender's game was
really fun and Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy. I also like poetry
(especially Sufi poetry like Rumi and Hafiz).
I am not very picky about movies and like to watch all kinds. Its
amazing that netflix hasn't cut me off! Favorites would include
Inception, Minority Report, Chung King Express, The Dark Crystal,
Labyrinth, Push, The Five Senses but really I'm game for pretty
I have not watched T.V. in a few years so I'm not up to date on the
current shows. If I want to watch some shows like Battlestar
Galactica, Lie to Me, or Weeds then I tend to just watch them on
I love trance music but am also a big fan of acoustic instrumental
music. I've got pretty eclectic tastes in music to the point where
its almost frustrating to play tracks straight through on my iPod.
When Duran Duran swaps to A Perfect Circle abruptly I crack
If you like to go to the symphony or opera, I'd love to go as
I'm not a very picky eater. I love sushi, Mexican food, Russian
food, Indian food, and Thai food is probably my favorite lately.
Foods I don't like are few but include Lima Beans, Liver &
Onions, and plain rice. I know the rice thing is weird but it just
kinda sticks to the stuff I really want to be eating.
The six things I could never do without
My Family, good friends, my computer, hugs, laughter, play.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The weekends and time out of work primarily. I like to think about
how different people view things. I love stumbleupon.com and
reddit.com because of the exposure to different ideas. I like to
think about how to enjoy time with others or by myself in equal
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with some friends or resting from a long day at work. Sometimes
out at house parties or talking with friends and family. I guess
I'm just as likely to be online relaxing and watching things like
ted.com or on reddit.com.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm recently out of a 3 year relationship with a girlfriend
(September). I'm attracted to guys most of the time and am getting
back into my friends and the dating scene. I don't drive but am
saving up for a car as we had shared one.
You should message me if
You would like to go out or hang out and would like to spend some
easy time with someone without worrying about pushy political or
If you've got a tendency to try to grill people on dates, use dates
just to get a free meal or tend to use sarcasm as humor to
passively belittle people then I'd rather not play.