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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Nov 21
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Other and laughing about it
Space camp
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Hawaiian (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a freelance writer (...yes, published) and a world traveler on vacation (IE settled down in Berkeley for a bit).

I'm an activist between movements, and recently out of a year+ relationship. I'm plotting the next moves with relationships outside of my normal social circles (hence OkC) and plotting the next chapter of my unfinished novel.

I have fun meeting up with people who can see beyond the illusion of the Bay Area bubble, as nice as it can be, and expand horizons to a more fully lived life, rather than a stylishly consumed one.

And dig this, I not only have radical theories about how this can be done (in so many diverse ways) but I've also (just as radically) proved it by living it, working and playing it.

It just so happens that currently I'm playing the hunker down and finish writing some books (fiction and non) to not only make my mark and dent in this world, but also a to help inspire others and co-create the next series of adventures.

Being creative, it's a job. It's constantly fighting the forces of un-creation and habit.

So along with the novelty of writing a novel, I'm looking to meet like-minded people to bounce ideas back and forth and who can shake things up when even being creative becomes too habitual for comfort.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting my ass back to the gym. (I like playing basketball, just not the coached team variety.)

A lot of post-Occupy reflections turned into writing (I was heavily involved in the Cal and the Oakland varieties). Giving guest lectures at colleges around the Bay on the subject.

The diversity of my writing comes from many angles; social justice, green jobs through clean energy/organic food, travel, making tomorrow better than yesterday by living today non-cliche...

Doing whatever I can (right now it's writing, acting, investigating) to smash the dominator society/culture, to a partnership society that can flourish ... circle of life and evolution through revolution.

Work is work, but I'm also a fun guy to be around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, I like to think I'm a skilled and innovative writer with a niche market. Though I don't know how much of that skill I'm actually applying here on OkC...
Being an entheogenic activist who rarely partakes. Too rarely, really.
It seems I'd rather have pizza and coffee these days. WTF?! I must be getting old...
Not being completely full of myself (only partially).
Casual heroics. Sometimes. Being comfortable with my level of control in extreme situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My unconventional look, long hair, goatee, dressed in mostly black, but not goth, a smile that's ready to spread across my face.

Oh, and lately, my outrageous sideburns. I don't know where they are going, but it's an interesting journey...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too much to list, I'll add more later

The Once and Future King, Food of the Gods, The Emperor Wears No Clothes, The People's History of the United States, The Island, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, Lady Chatterley's Lover, Count of Monte Cristo, The War with Mr. Wizzle, Steal This Book, LOTR, You Can't Go Home Again ...

Animatrix, Matrix, V for Vendetta, Adaptation, Seven Samurai, Waking Life, A Scanner Darkly, Meet John Doe, Ninja Bachelor Party, Yojimbo, Excalibur ...

Samurai Champloo, Cowboy Bebop

Tool, RATM, Hybrid, Royksopp, some electronic progressive trance, Dethklok.
If you can dance to it, or headbang to it (whatever mood you're in), appreciate artistically, but not passively consume it.
Also: Gruvis Malt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
*Optimism, even through the worst. (Not the namby-pamby kind, the hard fought kind.)
*Earned enthusiasm, as jaded and cynical just aren't as fun.
*A strong sense of justice. (and smaller awareness of imperfection)
*A healthy libido
*A creative mind that is up to having fun and exploring new ideas
*Sense of adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

My books, and creative works, which focus on how life is lived, and how in theory it could be better...
What a culture would look like if they actively engaged in experience enrichment fulfillment instead of monotony.
How to co-create that culture.
Love, in many, many forms. How to honor and worship that love and have that love reciprocate. Especially in female form.

How platonic friends are excellent too.

What a major land reform movement might look like if we really valued clean sustainable food justice. Having your own land, being your own boss... instead of being a wage serf to the system.

Gotta feed the revolutionary mind, AND the revolutionary stomach.

Oh, and Huey Freeman's series opening rant from the Boondocks. You know the line. "Doesn't that OFFEND you?!"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Plotting the revolution in 7 easy bake steps.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Shocker: I have never owned a cell phone. I don't have any particular philosophy about this: I just don't see the necessity of being on-call 24/7. Somehow, I manage.
You should message me if
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You should message me if I message you. Honestly. I don't write blanket form letters or crude come ons that are justly ignored, but I take the time to write individualized messages. So even if it's a "No thanks, not interested." Great! Good luck with your searches and I'll continue mine. But just because we're using computers doesn't mean we have to be robots about this; human courtesy counts!

You should message me if you are looking for a person who is challengingly (the good kind) unique, but thoughtful enough to catch the normals up to speed, if they want to take the journey.
Life is an adventure, dullness is the enemy.