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EricJHerboso

33 M Germantown, MD

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly), Greek (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In a crowd, I either stand out or am invisible, depending on your point of view. I like to read books while eating lunch alone in restaurants. I enjoy playing board games with friends in cafés that have more seating room than customers. I listen to podcasts on the metro and write in my journal whenever I visit DC. When I’m with friends, I love to debate and discuss whatever topic is at hand; when I’m surrounded by strangers, I mostly just listen to what others have to say.

In essence, I’m a somewhat shy philosophy nerd who wants more than anything else to most effectively help make the world a better place.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have dedicated my life to the cause of effective altruism. At the moment, this consists of working at a well-known effective altruism organization, though I also do a limited amount of earning to give through consulting work on the side.

My long term goal is to do the most awesome things I can do that will most positively affect us all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating technical information to a lay audience. I earn my living through communications strategy consultation; in effect, I get paid to communicate how to communicate effectively to communications departments. I’m rather proud of how meta my career choice is.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people usually notice about me is how quiet I am. But that’s only because I tend to be quiet when I’m surrounded by strangers (a.k.a. the population of people-who-can-first-notice-things-about-me).

Once we get past the strangers stage, the most prominent thing people notice is my tendency to debate. I also sometimes get comments on my state of dress, if it happens to be one of the days I wear a kilt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I won’t bore you with an overly long list, so I’ll instead just name one or two of my favorites from each category. Keep in mind that these are not necessarily my absolute favorites; they are just good examples of the kinds of things I really enjoy.

HPMOR, A People’s History of the United States, Adaptation, Arrested Development, Firefly, Birdland, Tocatta & Fugue in d minor.

I should also note that I am vegetarian here, since I’m supposed to list my favorite foods. There is a nontrivial chance that I might become vegan in the future.

If you want more detail, feel free to browse my accounts on last.fm/goodreads, or you can see blog entries on my favorite podcasts, my favorite tv shows, or my ‘likes’ on Facebook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bag, which I use nearly every day. My (admittedly overpriced) pen, with which I record most of everything I care about in my journal. My laptop/tablet/phone's internet access, which allows me to access nearly all the information we’ve gathered as a species. My headphones, which allow me to unwind, whether through music, podcasts, or gaming. And my guiltiest pleasure: high-quality bedding, without which I honestly sleep fitfully.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
…thought experiments that may affect serious real world decisions, like low-probability high-impact Pascal's mugging scenarios, or acausal trade. I spend a lot of my free time looking into whether we should even take these seriously.

metaethical theories that are coherent and consistent over the long term. Specifically, I think about how to communicate how urgent this need is to other, better thinkers than me.

…analyses of possibly highly effective interventions that nonprofits (or even an individual effective altruist) could use to bring about more total utility. (Note that this is also my day job.)

…whatever content I'm currently consuming (e.g.: podcasts, videogames, fiction, nonfiction, fanfiction, tv shows, movies, &c.). I'm the kind of person that likes to talk about a movie right after seeing it and participate in subreddits on tv series I'm currently watching.

philosophy. Seriously, check out how many of my favorite podcasts are philosophy-related.

…whether I should have put in something more relatable in this section of my profile. (I've had multiple people say that this section of my profile scares away far more potential partners than it attracts. But that's okay with me; I'd rather get an initial message from someone who expresses at least a little interest in the topics I spend a lot of time thinking about.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading. Or writing. Or maybe playing a video game. I don't really schedule out these things. Sometimes I work pretty late, too.

But probably I'm just listening to a coursera lecture, or posting in the EA facebook group. Or on reddit. Or less wrong. Or whatever. Check twitter.com/EricHerboso if you really care.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was younger, I had opinions and did things that I now consider quite abhorrent. The politics, ethics, and general personality of my past self are not something I’m proud of.

If you want to know more, feel free to google me; as far as I know, I’m the only "Eric Herboso" on the web. Just keep in mind that I’ve used my name publicly online since I was thirteen, and some of what I posted online way back when will not properly reflect who I am as a person today.

You can also see more on twitter.com/EricHerboso, facebook.com/EricHerboso, lesswrong/u/EricHerboso, reddit.com/u/EricHerboso, or EricHerboso.org.
You should message me if
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I’m a strong believer in radical honesty, so I feel I should bring up a few things that might affect your decision on whether to message me. Keep in mind that I’m open to friendship with anyone who writes, but if you’re solely interested in a romantic relationship, then you’ll want to read through the following.

I adore spending time around children (my siblings are 6, 10, and 20 years of age), but I have no particular desire to ever raise children of my own. I'm not fully opposed to the idea, but, if left to my own predilections, I think I'd prefer not to have kids.

I'm philosophically polyamorous. I'm perfectly comfortable being in a relationship with just one person, but I'm equally comfortable being alone or with multiple people. Openness and honesty in this is key.

I'm somewhat asexual. While I enjoy sex, it isn't particularly important to me. I'm usually not the one to initiate sex in relationships. I am, however, quite fond of hugging and physical closeness.

Finally, I’m a skeptic and a rationalist. While I appreciate good fiction, I don't get along well with people who endorse beliefs uncritically. If you're into ghosts, bigfoot, or the anti-vaccine movement, we probably aren't going to click.

If, after reading all that, you’re still wondering whether you should message me, then go ahead and message me! After all, what’s the worst that could happen? (c:

Oh, and even if we wouldn’t work romantically, I'd still love to hear from you if you think we might work out on a friendship basis. My social circles revolve around effective altruism, board games, video games, and philosophy. If you're interested in playing quality board games, joining a philosophy book club, or competing in Mario Kart/Smash Bros., then you may be just the kind of person I'm looking for.

All ages, races, cultures, sizes, and species should feel encouraged to get in touch with me. (c;