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42 Ridley Park, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:21am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update - I was just in Hawaii for work and went skydiving for the first time! It was incredible!

Back to the profile - Well, I'm back again. I've obviously been doing this wrong. People tell me I'm a smart guy but my dating history does not support this theory. In the past I've only included surface level facts/info about myself that I thought a lady would want to read and I've ended up with people that are superficial, not very nice, etc. So, I'm going to try just being brutally honest about what I think, feel, and want in the hopes that I can find someone similar and end the search for my partner in life.

I want to be in love. No shock there, right? I want to feel like I can't wait to come home to you and that not having you in my life would make life seemingly unlivable. I want to feel as though we're connected both physically and mentally knowing all there is to know about one another. I want to give you everything in my power to feel as happy, warm, cared for, and loved as is humanly possible and hope to receive the same in return. I want to share life and life's experiences and learn from all you and life has to offer. I want to be optimistic and see the best life has to offer and want someone to remind me when I slip from time to time.

A few things I can promise - I promise that I will never hurt you (on purpose, I can't really say for sure that it will never happen accidentally but I'll try very hard not to). I promise that I will love you with all the power I have within me. I promise that I will overcome anything that stands between you, me, and happiness. I promise to never lie to you.

Kinda serious and a bit intense, I know, and all true. I joke a lot with co-workers, friends, and just random people because I really like making those around me smile and laugh. If you're still reading I invite you to read on and then read our commonly answered questions. I often wonder how many people read all of them, I know I do even if I start with the sex ones (hey, I'm a guy and, well, I'm being honest).

Can you relate to this? I have no doubt everlasting love is possible given there are two people that believe it to be possible. I don't think this is only achievable in books, chick flicks, has to be possible and I believe it to be why I exist.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be a better person every day by learning. I like to go see live music, music is good for the soul. I am fortunate to love my job and that it's a pretty good one that enables me to do pretty much what I want to when I want to...I really love that freedom. I'd like to volunteer with dogs somewhere and have done so in the past at the SPCA. More later...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being calm in tense situations.

I'm good with being with children even though I've never had any.

I'm good at listening so long as it's not constant negativity that I'm listening to - are you someone that understands life is meant to enjoy, love, and have fun? I hope so...

Making people laugh, not taking life too seriously, taking care of my dog, work (I'm a hard worker), relaxing, getting down to some funky music, and being happy (most of the time).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very honest. I'm easy to get along with and typically get along with everyone in most any circumstance. I like to laugh and try to do so as much as possible. I can be sarcastic, okay, I'm often sarcastic but that's really just my way of coping with the stuff life throws my way and it usually brings a smile to people's faces. I've noticed that most people answer this with a physical trait so I guess probably my red hair that isn't quite as red as it once was.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies - Godfather, Goodfellas, Fight Club, Field of Dreams, Scarface, Good Will Hunting, Rocky, and Rain Man.

Music - Phish, too many jam bands to list, Led Zeppelin, Yes, Crosby - Stills - and Nash, Grateful Dead, Pink Floyd, Pearl Jam, myself in the shower...

Shows - Not too much into shows, been to Broadway once and that was enough for a long while. TV - most of the cable series like Homeland, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Modern Family, Seinfeld re-runs, man-style reality shows like Deadliest Catch, and pawn stars. I've been trying to reduce my tv intake lately...

Food - All seafood and pretty much everything else too except mushrooms, Lima beans, and liver.

Books - I'm currently reading Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I also like to read books about people that have sailed around the world, to me they are some of the few people that understand how to enjoy life and I hope to someday pursue similar adventures but otherwise I read a lot online. I'm a bit of a sponge and am consistently amazed at the level of information just a "Google" away.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Selling everything and sailing around the world, finding my "special" someone to spend the rest of my life with, and owning a large piece of land that could house abandoned and abused animals.
I guess it would be tough to sail around the world and have an animal shelter so maybe first sail around the world and then have an animal shelter is how I'll have to do it.
I'd also really like to think of something that would have a vast reaching positive effect on the masses but still have some work to do there....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired from working all week, oh wait that's probably not the "right" answer but it's true. Saturday night I'm up for most anything though from a nice dinner out to a boat ride into town on one of the rivers, to a good movie on the couch with wine and a special lady.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know, I don't really have any secrets that I can think of so it's tough to think of something very private. I'll answer any question, just ask.
You should message me if
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You've made it this far, relate to most of what is listed above, and...

You think it's worth meeting up to have a simple dinner or drinks or both to see if we have what it takes to be a happy couple. You are a positive person, love animals, is honest, likes sex (no I'm not on here just to have sex), enjoys traveling, and just plain wants to enjoy life.

If you find the need to use should, could, would or most variations of these with a 've suffix often in conversation I wish you luck but I don't think I'm the right person for you. Shame hasn't any purpose in my life, it is in direct conflict with my goal of happiness.