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34 • Indiana, PA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 16
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has cats
- English, French (Poorly)
Introverted: I often don't say much, especially if there are a lot of people around. I am not afraid of social interaction, but I can have a hard time approaching people and trying to start up a conversation. I am at my best one-on-one or in a small group setting; otherwise, I am likely to just sit there listening to what others have so say and thinking about it.
Intelligent: I graduated from Dartmouth College with a degree in Chemistry. I also studied Geology and am a fan of the sciences, in general. I have a lot to share, but it can be hard to get me to put it into words.
Feminist: I do not view women as objects, possessions, lesser beings to be conquered, etc. I believe females are our equals, with just as much potential as any male. Unfortunately, we live in a society that makes it very hard for a woman to be taken seriously if she has dreams and goals that are in areas generally reserved for men. I want a partner in life whom I can respect, who will share in the decisions along the way, whose opinions are valued. I do believe in chivalry, to a certain extent, and will open doors for you when convenient, etc. But I'll also open them for anyone else who happens to be in the right place at the right time. I guess it might be better to describe as common courtesy than chivalry.
A few other thoughts:
I much prefer working outdoors, as opposed to at a desk in some office.
My sense of humor tends to be on the dry and/or sarcastic side. Many people have no idea when I am joking.
Don't fear the atheist in me. I am not militant about it, and I won't try to convert you, as long as you don't try to convert me.
I also sell gems and minerals. Right now, I do about two gem shows each year and travel to Tucson each February to stock up on inventory at the largest gem show in the country.
I'm also trying to fix my back, and have taken up yoga and trigger point therapy with that goal in mind.
I can juggle up to six things at one time (though just barely). But. I know people who can do way more.
I'm pretty good at disc golf.
I am also a good listener. Possibly too good. Sometimes I think I should say more.
I would like to be better at playing a musical instrument and/or cooking.
I tend to be on the quiet side.
Sometimes the first thing people notice about me is that I can ride a unicycle while juggling three knives.
Raymond E Feist
I don't really watch much television. If I had to name a few shows that I enjoy on occasion, they'd be Scrubs, That 70s Show, Breaking Bad, Big Bang Theory.
Music: I can get down with most forms of music. Except a lot of the country and rap genres. I grew up on classic rock, so I guess rock, in general, would be my favorite. I have been to many concerts/other live music events throughout the years.
Some bands that come to mind to whom I like to listen include but are certainly not limited to:
Live (early albums)
Stone Temple Pilots (early albums)
The Dandy Warhols
Black Rebel Motorcycle Club
I like food of all kinds. My heritage includes Italian, so I can cook pasta and have pretty high standards for Italian restaurants. Thai is definitely a favorite of mine. I've had Ethiopian several times and it was very good. I am game for trying out new cuisines. One "food" I absolutely abhor is mayonnaise.
gems and minerals,
To be honest, I don't like this question. Never is a pretty heavy word, and I don't like to use it lightly.
...you want to travel the world.
...you are comfortable with meeting in person before too long. It is so easy to hide behind a screen. True compatibility is best judged face to face.
I suppose I might be down if you just want to make out, too. ;)
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