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40 M Kansas City, MO

My Details

Last Online
Mar 4
Black, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
I am a single guy living here in KC. I am from here originally but have lived all over since my late twenties. My last relationship lasted a couple of years with most of that being engaged. Things didn't work out between me and her and here I am. I am loyal to a fault when I am dating someone and expect the same. I'm not average by any means but I'm also not so conceited that I don't know my own faults and limitations. I like doing a variety of things including outdoor activities like camping and hiking. Mostly I love just kicking back and relaxing with my friends or that special someone fixing dinner together and watching movies at home.
What I’m doing with my life
I was in IT for almost six years and engaged. Then a couple of years ago things changed and I was single and without a job. I decided to finish up my degree either in political science or anthropology.My goal is to work for either the State Department or an NGO in developing countries to help build up needed infrastructure and help establish better practices for local governance or doing an ethnography on an isolated culture somewhere in the non post-industrial world.
I’m really good at
Reading people. I can generally understand what makes someone tick really fast. I am a good cook. I also pride myself on being a great listener and confidant to those that are special to me.
The first things people usually notice about me
quiet at first but then you can't shut me up once I know you
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dune--Frank Herbert
Foundation Trilogy---Isaac Asimov
A Peoples History of the United States--Howard Zinn
The Warmth of Other Suns--Isabel Wilkerson
The Elegant Universe--Brian Greene
A Brief History of Time--Stephen Hawking
Movies: Star Wars Episode V: The Empire Strikes Back
The Shawshank Redemption
The Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers
The Dark Knight
Bladerunner (directors cut without narration)
The Green Mile
Monty Python's The Life of Brian
The Silence of the Lambs
The Shining
2001: A Space Odyssey
Under the Tuscan Sun
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
Music: Too numerous to list
Shows: Sherlock (BBC)
A Game of Thrones
Stargate: SG1
Battlestar Galactica (both versions)
Absolutely Fabulous
Family Guy
Monty Python's Flying Circus
The Bob Newhart Show
The Mary Tyler Moore Show
Will and Grace
The Walking Dead
Food: As long as it doesn't have liver, gonads, pig intestines, tripe, beef tongue, or brussel sprouts in it I'm pretty much game....and yes I'm traumatized by the brussel sprouts :)
The six things I could never do without
There are very few things I absolutely have to have. However, I can think of six things that would be nice to have.
1.) my mp3 player--this is too easy..I keep enough music on that thing to run for three days without repeat.
2.)swiss army knife or multitool. I used to scoff at this but have found that its nice to have those things around.
3.) copy of the novel Dune by Frank Herbert.
4.) my trusty backpack.
5.) my laptop
6.) my phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately it has been the nagging question of wanting kids. A few years ago I did not want children but that has changed. I would like to have one child in the next couple of years closer to the end of grad school. When it is not that then its geopolitics, videogames, music, movies, art, and new recipes to try out.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am fighting the urge to stay out late since I have a metric ton of homework on any given week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Babies, puppies and kittens involuntarily make me go "awwwwww!"
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 28–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to chat, hang out, or go play hide and go seek in the Nelson-Atkins etc.