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Erik_N

56 Laurel, MD Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 25
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not a typical guy. Hopefully that's a good thing for you. Read on and I'll try to explain.

I'm living an unconventional life, but I'm a solid and dependable person. I have a technical background, but that's just part of the story. I'm active, healthy, and adventurous. I do things. I'm financially secure. I'm a gentleman. I don't follow sports. I know some poems by heart. I have a technical background, but I really like to be with artist and free thinkers.

I generally do not wear labels well. I don't seem to fit in anybody's defined categories. I have figured out my own orientation -

PGFMKN

P for pansexual.

From the web: "Pansexuality, or omnisexuality, is sexual attraction, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people of any sex or gender identity. Pansexual people may refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.

Pansexuality may be considered a sexual orientation in its own right or a subset of bisexuality, to indicate an alternative sexual identity. Because pansexual people are open to relationships with people who do not identify as strictly men or women, and pansexuality therefore rejects the gender binary, the "notion of two genders and indeed of specific sexual orientations", it is often considered a more inclusive term than bisexual."

GF for gender fluid. From the web: "Gender fluid is a gender identity which refers to a gender which varies over time. A gender fluid person may at any time identify as male, female, neutrois, or any other non-binary identity, or some combination of identities. Their gender identity can vary at random or in response to different circumstances. Gender fluid people may also identify as multigender, non-binary and/or transgender."

M for multiple relationships.

K for kinky. From the web: "In human sexuality, kinkiness or kinky (adjective), is a colloquial term used to describe unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities. The term "kink" has been claimed by some who practice sexual fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to sexual objectification and certain paraphilias.

Kink sexual practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between kink and fetishism, defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the latter as replacing it. Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well."

N for naked. I'm quite comfortable unclad in natural or social situations. I have created a home that allows for a clothing-optional lifestyle both inside and out.

I like to spend time with people. I call myself an extrovert in small groups. I enjoy meeting people and can easily start conversations with strangers, but I don't enjoy crowded, noisy bars.

I'm comfortable in nature - water, land, and air.

I've been on an illuminating journey - I have traveled through various alternative lifestyles and kept the parts of each that I liked. I have wound up here in an easygoing Bohemian lifestyle. It's about creativity, freedom, and a rollicking sense of fun.

I am spiritual, but not religious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring human space.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being comfortable in my own skin

Giving you space and freedom and understanding

Showing you things you haven't tried yet

Doing things with my hands

Not hurrying
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no tan lines

And

I like to smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like sci-fi, historical novels, mysteries, and serious books. Favorite authors are Patrick O'Brian, Kage Baker, Richard K. Morgan, Kurt Vonnegut, Dick Francis, Jimmy Buffett, Carl Hiaasen, Tim Dorsey, Kim Stanley Robinson, Bernard Cornwell, Alan Furst, and Robert B. Parker (his earlier years).

And let's not forget favorite poets - Don Blanding, Banjo Patterson, Shelley, Coleridge, Dylan Thomas, Housman.

Music, some of everything. I like funny music, and I like music that was written a long time ago and not for profit, like sea shanties and old lumberjack songs. I prefer mellifluous over strident.

Movies, whatever, no horror.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Open-minded people
Love
Laughter
Seeing what's around the next bend
Walking the road less traveled by
The beat of a different drummer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- People and relationships
- The world and where we're all going
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I just about never watch TV.
You should message me if
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You've read this far.

You find this profile interesting.

You are adventurous, curious, or interested in trying new things.

You resonate even a tiny bit with Don Blanding's poem, "The Double Life."

You'd like to talk about alternative lifestyles, alternative relationships, kinky stuff, nudism, photography, hand drumming, sailing/boating, the future of humanity on this planet, or the beauty of the human form.

You're an artist or photographer interested in drawing/photographing nude and/or erotic models.

You're interested in flying or learning to fly.