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ErinEN

35 F Buffalo, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe opening yourself up to love is a choice you make. It would be great to find someone to build a strong connection with. Looking to find someone who makes taking a chance worth it!!

Romantic. Affectionate. Loyal. Open-minded. Down-to-earth. Intelligent. Fun. Direct. Honest. Music lover. Concert goer. Liberal. Democrat. Agnostic. Introvert.

If your profile isn't filled out or there are no pictures....please say something other than hello to me and send a picture. G rated photos only please.

Some things that are important to me:

-Not interested in someone who smokes or does drugs.

-I do not like cats. At all. No cats please! Dogs are great though; I plan on getting one in October.

-30-40 years of age is preferred.

-I absolutely want to have kids in the not too distant future. Deal breaker if you don't.

-While I'm introverted and like my quiet time, I also LOVE listening to live music. It is my favorite way to spend my free time, and it is something I'm really looking to share with my guy.

-A man who has a passport/enhanced license and can go to Canada for concerts.

-A man who has a good relationship with his family.

-Looking for a man who is really ready to find that someone special, and put in the effort it takes to make a relationship last. I'm a firm believer in going after what you want when it comes to a relationship, and as they say: if a man wants you he will make sure you know he does.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I handle customer service for a health insurance company, Mon-Fri.

I own my own house in Kenmore.

I enjoy the outdoors, love the water, biking, walks, hiking, etc. I'm a certified scuba diver. Also like quiet time, reading and hanging out at home. Started learning how to snowboard...want to continue that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty good cook when I want to be. Get along easily with others, good listener.

I'm really bad at:
Reading lips...just can't do it. At all!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look much younger than my years.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Sound of Music, Trainspotting, A Clockwork Orange, Underworld, anything by Hayao Miyazaki, Star Wars, Hackers, Dazed and Confused, Momento, Clerks, Mallrats.

Books: Catcher in the Rye, The Fuck-up, God's Debris, The Outsiders, Hunger Games. Love to read, mostly fiction.

TV: X-Files, Smallville, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The League, Seinfeld, True Blood, Revenge, American Horror Story, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Lost.

Food: fav cuisines are Asian, Italian, and Indian. I have certain things I won't eat, but I will try a cuisine from just about anywhere. Love trying new restaurants, try to go to a new one each week.

Music: Rock, Alternative, Indie are my favs, but I don't limit myself to one type of music or one time period. 311, 30 Seconds to Mars, Alexisonfire, Alice in Chains, Arkells, Aqualung, Beatles, Boxer Rebellion, Bryan Adams, Broken Social Scene, BT, Chemical Brothers, Chicago, City and Colour, Clash, Deftones, Doors, Dropkick Murphys, Huey Lewis and the News, Incubus, Jeff Buckley, John Mayer, Kings of Leon, Matthew Good, Metric, Minus the Bear, MUTEMATH, Our Lady Peace, Ray LaMontagne, Sheepdogs, STP, Trews....so many others. Not into most country, rap, hip-hip and most heavy metal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Family and friends.
-Music, and lots of it.
-Quiet time for relaxing.
-Safe home & neighborhood to live in.
-My car.
-Technology.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-My future.
-Work I need to do around the house.
-The state of the country/world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling at home watching a movie or reading, or out listening to a band with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Check the questions.

I'm Agnostic and I believe in the Buddhist teachings. I lean way more toward the scientific than anything theology based.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you would like to find someone to build a life with, and you're sure that you're ready for it.

...you're looking to find someone to come home to, share dinners and cuddle up with.

...you have a life of your own and are not clingy, but also are willing to spend time together on a regular basis.

...you're affectionate: holding hands, hugging, kisses.

...you have a good relationship with your family; like kids and dogs.

...you're into going to concerts and will go even if you don't know the band; will go just to hang out and share the experience. And you're looking for someone to do the same for you.

...you truly love music, you listen to the words. Music has meaning in your life, it isn't just a good beat.

...you're cool with not rushing ...but... you're not afraid of commitment. When it is right, it is right....why drag your feet?