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53 Kenmore, WA Woman


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  • Ages 30-45
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 21, 2014
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Two-year college
Has kid(s)
Has cats
My self-summary
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I've been a massage therapist, an opera singer, secretary and am now a medical assistant. I am a pretty positive person, generally, even during tough times. As far as relationships and romance go, I am polyamorous,sort of bisexual* and have HSV2. I'm silly, funny, serious, argumentative, creative, decent and kind. I'm also kinky if you're into that (I'm a Top/Dom) but that isn't necessary in any or all relationships I'm in.

I've described my religion/faith as "Christo-Pagan Taoist, with just a touch of Lime", which if it tells you something you're ahead of me.

I've just finished a couple of years off the dating market due to being in school and changing careers, but now I am actively looking for a new partner or two. Yes I'm married, Yes we're poly. I love sex and think it is awesome; caveat: Not a hook-up girl and not a swinger.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've just finished school and started a new career as a Medical Assistant. I've been a massage therapist for 17 years so this is a great new adventure. I'm married and have 4 step kids (they live with their mom but are with us every other weekend).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles, logistics, bridge, snuggling, word games, massage, singing, listening, sex, communication....
The first things people usually notice about me
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I thought brown hair, glasses, curvey, feminine. But when I asked my partner he said, "how huggable you are; how I never doubted your sincerity, how safe I feel with you and your touches with your gifted hands".

Take your pick.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hmmm. Instead of books I'll list authors: Heinlein, George M. Fraser, Elizabeth Moon, Mercedes Lackey, Elizabeth Cadell, Rex Stout, Robert B. Parker, Dick Francis, James Thurber, Dorothy Parker, David Webber, etc.

I like the New Yorker, The Smithsonian, I liked George during its short run. The Village Voice and its Seattle equivalent, The Stranger.

I'll go see anything with Clint Eastwood, Pixar Animation, Speilberg, all the Star Wars movies, Star Trek, Firefly -- SHINEY) so not exactly an indy film chick.

Music I was an opera singer but don't listen to much of it anymore. I like pop, jazz, classical, folk (including zeideco & klezmer) and of course, musical theatre. Specific artists include Pink, The Asylum Street Spankers, Sting, Paul Simon, Annie Lennox, Queen, Heart, etc.

Foods: american, mexican, chinese, thai... I'm a pretty plain eater. Favorite food is toast. No, really.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, sleep, sex, affection, intellectual stimulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships, politics, work, family, TV show plots, business, faith, desire, psychology, how to improve my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, or out with friends, watching TV, or out on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've never smoked anything, nor taken an illegal substance. And I'm not sorry or curious about either.
You should message me if
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You can talk, you can listen, you take yourself lightly and eschew drama.Silly is a prerequisite.

FYI: I get bored pretty quick on line if all you want to do is get straight to sexy times, I'm interested in people first and penis (or vagina) second