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21 Asheville, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 2
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just an adventurous twenty one year old kid who's looking for someone to love. You could say that I'm pretty "deep." I want my time here to be happy and meaningful. Outside is generally preferable to in, I love laying around in the sun, or the cold, there just seems to be more goodness in the fresh air. I interact peacefully and lovingly with those around me. Truth will out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I don't know my ends, but my means will be present and alive. I am a soon to be Massage Therapist. I work at music festivals. Existing freely.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying life in it's various forms and stages. Seeing past the end of my nose. Natural healing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am here, and that I want to play with them and have a good time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books and films which are deep in thought and have a meaningful and or melancholy tone will suffice. Human voices raised in song are a blessing to those above and below. Some of my favorite talents are Angus and Julia Stone, Scott Bradlee and the Postmodern Jukebox, Iron and Wine, Edward Sharpe and the magnetic zeros, and The Smiths. I'll eat almost anything, but my favorite foods come out of the ocean... Game of Thrones!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A small collection of old souls I have been blessed to acquire over the seasons as friends. Human touch. Music. The occasional smoke. My collection of old stories. Fried green tomatoes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I daydream a lot about pleasurable things I suppose. I tend to keep my brain at a healthful ease. I don't enjoy thinking about anything complicated.You do not have a soul, you are a soul. What you have is a body, for now. Be grateful for this experience.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding something diverting to do. By the way, I take no offense to flying up whatever chimney of smoke you prefer, or biting off a bit of nature to reach whatever heavens of thought suit your fancy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not sexually attracted to effeminate gay men.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm afraid I don't have entirely too much to say on this subject, I enjoy all sorts of folks. Please have some manner of spirit or depth about you. Be able to love a little bit, whether it's life or anything else.