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ErrantPilgrim

25 M Grosse Pointe, MI

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Ancient Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've often been told that I am very optimistic, though I certainly don't feel that way. I just think that things tend to work out, as far as the human race is concerned. Maybe things don't always work out for the best, but we're still here, aren't we? (Oh, god! Aren't we?) I think that pretty well describes my outlook on life: generally sunny humanism, interspersed with bouts of extreme existential terror. I'm a philosopher at heart; which means that I think far too much about abstract things, and think people care far more about my opinion than they actually do.

I have a very wry sense of humor, and I tend to play word games with the things I say, purely for my own amusement. Most people never notice, and I would hardly expect them to, but it keeps me entertained. I have a pretty wide vocabulary, and I tend to use it. I was essentially raised by books, and I don't really notice it. I think it causes a lot of people to find me ostentatious, and using words like 'ostentatious' probably doesn't help. I consider myself to be a pretty humble person at the core, though. But I suppose that's what most arrogant people would say, anyways. So, you'll just have to decide for yourself. Hopefully you'll like me.

So, I used to sort of try to keep this under wraps, test the waters before I leaped in, but I continually find myself spilling the beans within the first two or three messages with someone, so I'm over hiding it. I'm trans, MtF. Obviously, I have barely even started walking down the road of transition, yet, but I have been out to my close friends and family for almost four years now. So, yeah, that's me. I'm all about gender politics and pretty dresses, feel free to engage me on both or either. Needless to say, bigots need not apply.

Why is this only 'has dogs.' Is it that unlikely to just have 1? ===>
I have a single dog, and she is the best.

My Myers-Briggs type is NFP, with no strong preference towards introversion or extroversion. Seriously.

Apparently I hang out on this site doing nothing too often, because I have just been made a user moderator. Fear my power. Muwahahaha. Kekekeke. Etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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I while away the hours conversing with the flowers, and consulting with the rain.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not very many things. I'm a bit of a dilettante, to be perfectly frank. A bit of a Jack-of-all-Trades/Master-of-None sort of situation. I mean, I certainly have my areas of expertise. I'm rather good at considering other people's feelings. Acting is something I've had a bit of success with. Also, I've been told that I'm quite the er-- cunning linguist, if you know what I mean, and I'm sure you do.

Went to the Youmacon Rave this year and mastered several new dance moves hitherto unseen by humanity. Such as: The 'Politely Move Out of Your Way', The 'Am I Dancing with a Girl or Near a Girl?', The 'Cockblock'd', The 'Seriously, Do I Have a Sign Over My Head that Says Walk in Front of this Guy?', The 'Accidentally Ignore an Obvious Vibe', The 'Conga Trainwreck Victim', and The "How Did I End Up Surrounded by Men, Again?".
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height, long hair, and scruffy beard. At least, that's what people, strangers even, are most likely to comment on. Actually, the first thing you'd probably notice is my voice. I project naturally, so you'll probably hear me coming before you see me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson, Groundhog Day, Futurama, The Clash, and Trader Joe's Uncured Bacon Ends & Pieces, just off the top of my head. I have a very wide range of very eclectic tastes. I don't read nearly as much as I used to, but books may still be my favorite form of media. I'm a sucker for science-fiction and fantasy literature, often the trashier the better. I have dreams to write cheap genre paperbacks, one day.

Music: Kalayo, The Republic Tigers, Metric, The Go-Gos, Siouxsie and The Banshees, The Ramones, The White Stripes, Weird Al Yankovic, The Black Keys, Wall of Voodoo, Pink Floyd, Wax Tailor, Two-Door Cinema Club, Supertramp, America, Stevie Wonder, Skrillex (you know you still love it), The Bird and The Bee, Aesop Rock, MF Doom, Atmosphere, The Beastie Boys, Junk Science, Chrome Sparks, Hercules and Love Affair, and jeez... so many more, I'm sure.

Authors: (books would take too long, so here are some stand-outs. Only some omissions are intentional.) Neil Gaiman, Neal Stephenson, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Stephen King, Rachel Aaron, Charles DeLint, Patricia Briggs, George Bernard Shaw, Jim Butcher, Plato, Herodotus, Grant Morrisson, Warren Ellis, Allen Moore, Robert A. Heinlein, Garth Ennis (I guess), Mike Costa, Chuck Palahniuk, Isaac Asimov , William Shakespeare, Jane Austen, and the Bronte Sisters.

TV: 30 Rock, NewsRadio, Will & Grace, Orange is the New Black, Arrested Development, Parks & Recreation, Daria, Community, Supernatural, Twin Peaks, Rick and Morty, The Venture Brothers, Archer, Battlestar Galactica, Utopia, Bob's Burgers, American Dad!, Workaholics, Ugly Americans, older episodes of The Office, Extras, Spaced, Derek, Utopia, LOST, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, like, so many of the TVs... All of the TVs...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Glasses, though they hardly need to be in any fit state of repair
-A TV, though I hate to admit it
-At least one friend
-Pizza, my ultimate comfort food
-A pen, though I frequently am without one
-and My arms. The thought of losing them terrifies me. My legs? Not so much.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
travelling. I wish that I was better with saving my money, because I long to see the world. My wanderlust is so great, in fact, that I often find myself contemplating picking up stakes with the resources I have now. Namely, none to really speak of. I want to see Japan. I want to see anyplace West of the Mississippi. I want to visit Australia. More than anything, though, I want to go to the British Isles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, unfortunately. Friday night is delivery night at CVS, and I am always closing. Until 11 p.m. I am working. After that, though, I'm often lounging around with friends, smoking bowls and doing boring things while having awesome conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate The Breakfast Club. Like, I am seriously disdainful of that movie. I can stomach other Hughes films, but I fucking hate The Breakfast Club.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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literally anything about me intrigues you. I am always up for a chat, and can be quite the loquacious interlocutor.