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EsmeGothKitty

22 Calcutta, India Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:29am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Bengali (Fluently), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Most of us only find our own voices after we've sounded like a lot of other people." - Neil Gaiman

So, I spend everyday figuring out who I sound like.

I once tripped a drunken monk because he was walking towards a cliff.

I would sell every last organ to see Reza Aslan speak.

I obsess over androgyny. Nothing more beautiful than the blurring of boundaries.

I am a bleeding-heart liberal. I believe in personal liberty, social security, animal rights, LGBT rights, disarmament and environmental preservation. I believe in freedom to practice alternative lifestyles. I am a feminist and believe that the rape of a male should be discussed, prevented and punished. I have no problems with nudity or promiscuity. Just because I do not indulge in the former does NOT mean I judge anyone on the basis of such action. If you are a conservative, right-wing, religious prick, leave.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Envision all the fun that I'll be having once I move out of this shitstain of a city. ( Seriously, I want to go dancing someday. On a beach.)

Oh, and being a retard at aikido classes twice a week.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. I can use words like the wicked witch used the dark forces until that little Kansas bitch dropped a bucket on her.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bald spot. Gesticular extravagance. Proto-cacophanic emissions.

Tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I was told having a giant list of books here made me look extremely pretentious and elitist, so I'll just list current favorites and my enduring favorites.

At the moment :

Reza Aslan's No God but God
Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and Years of Pilgrimage
Peter Carey's Jack Maggs
Ryu Murakami's Popular Hits of the Showa Era
Philip Pullman's The Good Man Jesus and The Scoundrel Christ
Everybody Loves a Good Drought
David Foster Wallace's Oblivion
The Autumn of the Patriarch
The Tibetan Book of the Dead
Fury

Forever perfect :

The Lord of the Rings
The Graveyard Book
Memories of my Melancholy Whores
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Almost Transparent Blue
Kafka on the Shore

Anything Raoul Servais has ever made,
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Gozu, Suicide Club, Ichi the Killer, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, Phantom of the Opera, Taxidermia, Donnie Darko, Lord of the Rings, Pan's Labyrinth, Requiem for a Dream, Wild Strawberries, The Seventh Seal, The Dark Knight, Amour, Rejected, Everything will be Okay, The Big Lebowski, Eraserhead, 3-Iron, M.A.S.H, Hannibal, The Tudors, Old Nicktoons, Bob's Burgers. The Colbert Report

Music [ its cool to have a long list apparently]:

For some reason, I've gotten into buffering Buddhist mantras on Youtube. Not a believer, but they are incredibly emotionally exfoliating.
Opeth
Pantera
The Mahavishnu Orchestra
Silencer
DIAURA
Air
Thomas Tallis
Arvo Part
Philip Glass
Miyavi
Flumpool
30 seconds to Mars
ONE OK ROCK
Pay Money to my Pain
Luna Sea
Coldrain
Lynch
London Grammar
My Eggplant Died Yesterday
Coaltar of the Deepers
Moddi
Thomas Tallis
SPYAIR
Diablo Swing Orchestra
Ryuichi Sakamoto
Toshiki Akiyoshi
Pink Martini
Edith Piaf
The White Birch
Puscifer
Maximum the Hormone
Blackfield
No-Man
Bass Communion
Anoushka Shankar
Anonymous Confederate Ensemble
Balmorhea
Atheist
Pearl Jam
Pink Floyd
Charon
Uyama Hiroto
Nujabes
Ahab
Agalloch
Draconian
Narsillion
Enya
Poisonblack
Amon Amarth
Apocalyptica
Norther
Dying Fetus
Iron Maiden
Rush
Comus
JYJ
Nell
Sekai No Owari
The Beatles
The Doors
Jason Becker
Vivaldi
Ludovico Einaudi
Cerebral Bore
Death
Bloodbath
Jason Becker
Steve Vai
Joe Satriani

Porcupine Tree
Versailles
The Gazette
Lareine
Moi Dix Mois

Oasis
Leonard Cohen
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The weeaboo lifestyle.
Books.
Animals.
Powdered sugar and corn syrup.

I'm bored now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What Pico Iyer and Neil Gaiman's lovechild would like for dinner.

Dancing to something at a jazz bar.

Why almost no one values articulation anymore.

Japan.

How much it sucks that my brown skin and nationality prevents me from teaching English in Japan/China.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading / Watching Bob's Burgers or South Park.

Aspiring to be Moriarty.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to be a narcissist. I just don't have the waistline for it.
You should message me if
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Go on. Inspire me.