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EsmeGothKitty

22 Calcutta, India Woman

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Bengali (Fluently), Hindi (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It is not that I have no past. Rather, it continually fragments on the terrible and vivid ephemera of now. In the long country, cut with rain, somehow there is nowhere to begin. - Dhalgren.

I once tripped a drunken monk because he was walking towards a cliff.

Fat and opinionated. You have been amply warned..

I pour Bailey's Irish Cream into milk and call it adult Ovaltine..

I obsess over androgyny. Nothing more beautiful than the blurring of boundaries.

I will be depressed over Terry Pratchett's death for a long time.

I am a bleeding-heart liberal. I believe in personal liberty, social security, animal rights, LGBT rights, disarmament and environmental preservation. I believe in freedom to practice alternative lifestyles. I am a feminist and believe that the rape of a male should be discussed, prevented and punished. I have no problems with nudity or promiscuity. Just because I do not indulge in the former does NOT mean I judge anyone on the basis of such action. If you are a conservative, right-wing, religious prick, leave.

I hate, and I mean HATE Calcutta. Almost as much as bad grammar.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Envision all the fun that I'll be having once I move out of this shitstain of a city. ( Seriously, I want to go dancing someday. On a beach.)

Writing for a music magazine, which means free entry to gigs I cannot go to BECAUSE FUCK THE LACK OF SAFETY IN THIS COUNTRY AT NIGHT! ( and day)

Oh, and being a retard at aikido classes twice a week.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. I can use words like the wicked witch used the dark forces until that little Kansas bitch dropped a bucket on her.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Bald spot. Gesticular extravagance. Proto-cacophanic emissions.

Tattoo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I was told having a giant list of books here made me look extremely pretentious and elitist, so I'll just list current favorites and my enduring favorites.

At the moment :

Shitload of Japanese Death Poems
Saul Bellow' Seize the Day
Delany's Dhalgren
Ursula Le Guin's The Birthday of the world and other stories
The Peripheral Centre - Voices from the NorthEast
David Foster Wallace's Oblivion
The Autumn of the Patriarch
The Tibetan Book of the Dead
Devdutt Pattanaik's Sita

Forever perfect :

The Lord of the Rings
The Graveyard Book
Memories of my Melancholy Whores
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Almost Transparent Blue
Kafka on the Shore

Anything Raoul Servais has ever made, Agora, Rikyu, Whiplash
Selma, Gozu, Suicide Club, Ichi the Killer, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, Phantom of the Opera, Taxidermia, Donnie Darko, Lord of the Rings, Pan's Labyrinth, Requiem for a Dream, Wild Strawberries, The Seventh Seal, The Dark Knight, Amour, Rejected, Everything will be Okay, The Big Lebowski, Eraserhead, 3-Iron, M.A.S.H, Hannibal, The Tudors, Old Nicktoons, Bob's Burgers. The Colbert Report

Music [ its cool to have a long list apparently]:

For some reason, I've gotten into buffering Buddhist mantras on Youtube. Not a believer, but they are incredibly emotionally exfoliating.
Opeth
Pantera
The Mahavishnu Orchestra
Silencer
DIAURA
Air
Thomas Tallis
Arvo Part
Philip Glass
Miyavi
Flumpool
Koko Taylor
ONE OK ROCK
Pay Money to my Pain
Luna Sea
Coldrain
Lynch
London Grammar
My Eggplant Died Yesterday
Coaltar of the Deepers
Moddi
Thomas Tallis
SPYAIR
Diablo Swing Orchestra
Ryuichi Sakamoto
Toshiki Akiyoshi
Pink Martini
Edith Piaf
The White Birch
Puscifer
Maximum the Hormone
Blackfield
No-Man
Bass Communion
Anoushka Shankar
Anonymous Confederate Ensemble
Balmorhea
Atheist
Pearl Jam
Pink Floyd
Charon
Uyama Hiroto
Nujabes
Ahab
Agalloch
Draconian
Narsillion
Enya
Poisonblack
Amon Amarth
Apocalyptica
Norther
Dying Fetus
Iron Maiden
Rush
Comus
JYJ
Nell
Sekai No Owari
The Beatles
The Doors
Jason Becker
Vivaldi
Ludovico Einaudi
Cerebral Bore
Death
Bloodbath
Jason Becker
Steve Vai
Joe Satriani

Porcupine Tree
Versailles
The Gazette
Lareine
Moi Dix Mois

Oasis
Leonard Cohen
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fantasy, because real life is shit.
Books.
Animals.
Powdered sugar and corn syrup.
Oreos and white wine.

I'm bored now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What Pico Iyer and Neil Gaiman's lovechild would like for dinner.

Dancing to something at a jazz bar.

Why almost no one values articulation anymore.

Japan.

How much it sucks that my brown skin and nationality prevents me from teaching English in Japan/China.

Why I am still in this cesspool of a city.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Aspiring to be Moriarty.

Dreaming of green-gold mountains.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want to be a narcissist. I just don't have the waistline for it.

Do new things really help make life better?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can spell. Please do not talk to me if you can't use grammar impeccably. And I mean, impeccably.

Also, if you're "simple minded", don't bother. I'm looking for complexity, not boredom.