Nifara and I are in an open marriage and we're on here looking for relationships of all kinds. Dating, friends, possible sex (but only if we already know you a bit) and all the blurred stuff inbetween. We are super disinterested in people who want to have affairs with either of us without the other one knowing but open to individually dating people.
I would not consider myself 'female' most of the time and I hate being labelled in very female terms. If you really like the normal social concepts of male and female in the UK right now then we may not get on because you could find yourself constantly alienating me without realising it. I dress 'female' and kind of view my body like an old-fashioned arranged marriage - I didn't choose it but I've built a relationship with it now and its mine.
We have a kid, who is six months old and super cute (we get stopped in the street which is kind of nice). He takes up a lot of time to be honest, and going out is harder but even more important! He sleeps like a goddamn angel and we are eternally grateful for it.