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27 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:54pm
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Used up
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Misanthropic male aged 27 yrs. Freelance filmmaker, writer, photographer, professional-sounding customer service gremlin.

Interests: feminism, critical theory, doom/death metal, social justice, hip hop, literature, equality, punk/post-punk, Frankfurt-school Marxism, weed, and coffee.

I am pretty repulsed by the male behavior on OkCupid, so I ain't gonna ingratiate myself upon you. Just trying to meet some chillers of all races, genders, and proclivities, preferably in the East Bay or San Francisco.

I'm in a ultra-loving monogamish relationship with my favorite person in the world, burrito_addict.
What I’m doing with my life
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Originally from the North Bay, but moved to SF/Oakland to go to SF State and study Cinema. Done with that, now just working and chilling.

I'm a photographer of people, concerts, urban blight, and sanctified mundanity. Some of my stuff can be peeped here:
The first things people usually notice about me
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my soul-destroyingly cute green eyes/beard/rare gear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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film: The Doom Generation, Videodrome, The Master, La Femme Nikita (Besson), The Holy Mountain, A Face In The Crowd, Discreet Charm of The Bourgeoisie, La Notte, After Hours, La Strada, Shock Corridor, The Phantom of The Paradise, Week End (Godard), Taxidermia, Holy Motors, Teorema, Suspiria, Faster, Pussycat! Kill! Kill!, Spring Breakers, The Lost Weekend, Touch Of Evil, Adam Curtis docs.

Muzak: Cocteau Twins, Boris, Earth, Alice Coltrane, Siouxsie & the Banshees, Buzzcocks, My Bloody Valentine, Slowdive, Freddie Gibbs, FKA Twigs, Flying Lotus, Scott Walker (the baroque chamber pop guy, not the corrupt Wisconsin politician), De La Soul, Brian Eno, John Cale, Charles Mingus, Kate Bush, MF DOOM, Danny Brown, Sleep, Quasimoto, Harry Nilsson, Wipers, St. Vincent, Oneohtrix Point Never, Eric Dolphy, ANTWON, Boards of Canada, Mount Kimbie, Guided By Voices, Roxy Music, Death Grips, etc

Books: Less Than Zero, Hard Boiled Wonderland And The End of The World, Women in The Dunes (book + film), Dune (book series + Lynch film), Thomas Pynchon, weirder PKD like Radio Free Albemuth and UBIK, The Idiot, Notes From Underground, Psychotic Reactions and Carburetor Dung

Shows: Buffy, Comedy Bang Bang, House Of Cards, True Detective, Peep Show, Broad City, The State/Stella, Breaking Bad, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, Star Trek, Eric Andre, Freaks and Geeks + Undeclared, Seinfeld + Curb, Home Movies + Bob's Burgers, and, above all else, season 1-10 of the Simpsons.

Comix: Black Hole, Transmetropolitan, Sandman, Alan Moore's Swamp Thing, Bone, Animal Man, Life In Hell, R. Crumb/Moebius/Harvey Pekar stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
mainlining coffee every morning.
my records and a functioning turntable
the butt and thigh region
cameras (new and old)
readily available breakfast burritos
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
pretty baked alternating episodes of Buffy The Vampire Slayer/Angel
You should message me if
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You a freak or you think we'd be friends.