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40 M Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous

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My self-summary
I am 40. I am more vibrant, healthy and energized than I was in my 20s and 30s.
I still sruggle to define myself every day, How can I just about everything I do ? What am I learning from any given situation ? Does arrogance or agression in life really solve anything ? If not why am I so good at it lol.
Im never 100 percent sure about anything, that does not prevent me from making choices and taking action.
I love the random magic of life.
Love, compassion, grattitude, are more than feelings to me, they are verbs.
If what I do is in contrast to what I say... Its a lie. Actions speek the truth.
I hate writing these things because the only way to really know me is to see me in person.
My photos and my profile can not possibly compare to "feeling me" face to face.
What I’m doing with my life
I have some money and that affords me a few years to build the life of me dreams. I am following my heart and am planning on attending UBC or UVIC. I havent made my final decision yet. I am looking for like minded people... my tribe lol
I’m really good at
Holding an intelligent Conversation
Being honest
Solving problems
Helping people
Making people laugh.
Being critical...At least I keep my mouth shut:)
Loving with a whole heart
Being protective
The first things people usually notice about me
I have a powerful presence. I look young. My skin. The shape im in. Thats what people tell me they notice lol...but who knows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I dont know ! Most of the stories are repeats, movies and books. I read alot but mostly, research. I love my tec but only in balance with my life. Being plugged into movies, video games, and yes even books for hours on end is what I call a day dream. Its fun in moderation :)
Life...Living it !!
The six things I could never do without
Hopefully You.
Healthy foods
Clean air to breathe
Clean (of chemicals) water to drink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How I am programmed to be nothing more than a consumer wage slave.
-How can I deprogram and reprogram my mind through neuro plasticity.
-How people (including me) fail to recognize that they are animals, primates in fact.And how that lack of acknowledgement seperates us from the other animals and life on this planet in general. --And how the only way I can transform the world is by transforming my self.
-Why cant I maintaine a general feeling of grattitude, and joy ? And would I if I could lol.
You know just stuff :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Listening to music. Writing, reading, working out. Hanging out with family. My friends and family are far away, so this summer I have been travelling to visit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am lonely because, not just any woman will do. I want that connection that is so deep, that there are moments of complete connection that are like visiting another dimension. Bliss for me doesnt equal just physical sex but emotional mental and spiritual love combined. Im interested in tantra and love making as a sacred healing connection. I am monogamous.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are serious about meeting, and having a healthy relationship. I am totally cool if we wind up as friends with no romantic connection. If you believe you are totally and completely responsible for creating your life, and are actively working on manifesting with intention.