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41 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:34am
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The last two years of my life I have gotten sober, lost 65/70 lbs. I am more motivated and driven then at any other point in my life !
My priorities have changed dramatically and the life I had built no longer fit. I am a creative, adventurous, vibrant person by nature. Not the Materialistic, over indulgent, self destructive person I became...if you know that song by k-os Man I Used To Be.
I have a strong faith in my abilities and my life has been full of some intense challenges. I am very grateful for my past, for it was this past that transformed me into who I am now, and I like me :)
My definition of success is following my heart and being true to my self, defining my own life and experience. Finding a free thinking, creative, intelligent woman. I want to be with a woman who is not affraid to share her mind body and soul with me as I desire to share all that I am with her.
That is the ultimate goal.
I would also be very happy just to make some great friends. I genuinely like women ! Even when I was a young boy I had girl friends and was as comfortable hanging with girls as I was my boys.
I am serious about meeting in person and am not here to play games. If you like me dont be affraid to message me. kay ?
PET PEEVE: Communication is key for me. If you only are capable of two word conversations, and have no questions for me. Why bother contacting me in the first place ? The last thing I want in a relationship is to feel like I have to drag a personality out of you. There is nothing more lonely than being with someone who wont communicate. If I wanted to pull teeth I would have become a dentist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being my self. Deciding where to go back to school in the spring. I know what I want to study I havent decided on the school. Im lucky in that I have some time and money to just focus on my own development, without the pressure to go in any direction that is not personally fulfilling... Yay !
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Holding an intelligent Conversation
Making people laugh.
Communicating honestly and openly.
Staying true to my word
Reminding friends and family about there greatness when they forget :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im more concerned with what people notice once they get past the cover and read the book.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read alot mostly, research. I am interested in politics, culture, nutrition, spirituality, psychology... you know, the human condition.
I like 90s hip hop WuTangClan is my favourite, red hot chillies, peter gabriel, JayZ, Sonic is my radio station. I really am loving the state of new music today because anything goes, creativity is no longer shackled by genre.
I am a gamer, love my PS4 and PC.
Sci Fi, Fantasy, Horror, Comedy are my favourite genres for movies and TV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh Ideas
Healthy foods
Clean air to breathe
Clean (of chemicals) water to drink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Health, gratitude love and longevity.
-Neurological plasticity
-How people fail to recognize that they are animals, primates in fact.And how that lack of acknowledgement seperates us from the other animals and life on this planet in general. -And how the only way I can transform the world is by transforming my self.
-Living in a glass house
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to music. Writing, reading, working out. Hanging out with family. My friends and family are far away, so this summer I have been travelling to visit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im lonely. I squandered my potential for nearly 2 decades on alcohol, gambling, and anything else that helped me escape my self.
You should message me if
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If you are serious about meeting, and having a healthy relationship. I am totally cool if we wind up as friends with no romantic connection. If you believe you are totally and completely responsible for creating your life, and are actively working on manifesting with intention.