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Ethicalatheist2

44 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:32am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I love NYC but I'm a native so forgive me if I don't swoon over this town. It's just home.
I would have to describe myself as an unusual person. The path commonly taken doesn't generally appeal to me. Especially where thinking is concerned. I'm a fairly gregarious person and I usually get on well with just about everyone but that doesn't mean that my bullshit detector is broken. A writer friend described me as a "...natural alpha. None of the bluster and posturing of a fake alpha because you don't need it" (he assured me this was a compliment)
What I’m doing with my life
I am a furniture designer, builder and restorer. I also design showroom and retail spaces.
I'm also constantly working on my apartment. Living in a non-personalized space is like a nightmare to me. Friends who visit are always in awe of my 2 Abyssinian cats and the decor.
I'm an avid biker and skater (figure or speed).
The beach is a haven as are the woods but the idea of camping for a week in the snow no longer appeals to me.
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind to.
Also:
Disarming nuclear warheads
Underwater Jenga
Shuck and jive
Recumbent unicycle
Bending minds with my spoon
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look 10 to 12 years younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In recent years I've gravitated toward non-fiction.
My taste in music is broad. There's good and bad in all genres. The only music that turns me off is free jazz and reggae 'cause it all sounds the same.
I'm an adventurous eater. There's nothing I won't try at least once; no matter how nasty it may sound.
I've seen more movies than most would believe. Here's a few that I'll watch to the end if I stumble upon them in progress:
Metropolis, The Day The Earth Stood Still, Seconds(a must see!), 12 Angry Men, Blade Runner, 2001:A Space Odyssey, anything Hitchcock but especially Rope, Psycho, Strangers on a Train and The 39 Steps, Brazil, Night of the Living Dead, Dr. Strangelove, Topkapi, Dr. No, Kung Fu Hustle, The Armor of God, Dollars, Naked Lunch, Eating Raoul, Buster Keaton(all of it), Straw Dogs, 5 Easy Pieces, The Silent Partner....
The six things I could never do without
Friends
Good food
Purpose
Laughter
Cats
Espresso machine
Creativity
Science
The beach (nature in general)
A woman to share it all with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How driving style is reflective of personality.
Why people can't seem to share the sidewalk.
(You do realize I'm kidding)
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical Friday night?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had 4 mothers. (Seriously though)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You know who you are and what you want. You're smart and not afraid of smart men who are in touch with their feminine side. You find an ugly truth more appealing than a beautiful lie. You like to laugh...a lot. You're tired of dealing with wankers and momma's boys.