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Etiocles

48 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:25pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who knows, really? Mostly a decent guy, too many books, not nearly enough fun.

People probably describe me as intense, hyper-verbal, meaninglessly energetic. I'm a native New Yorker who returned after a few years in California and have been trying very hard to amalgamate the coasts into one way of living...unsuccessfully, thus far but I'm not without hope. For a while, I felt quite central to life in New York, or gay life anyway, and I'm kind of grateful that this period of life is passing me by.

What else? Got rid of cable about six months ago which seems to be working out well. I go to the gym in the morning...in fact, I prefer to do a lot of things in the morning...and wish most of my lunches did not take place over the keyboard. End-of-day, if I've got plans, I'd prefer a quiet, even an unpopular restaurant to one where I cannot hear someone talk.

I'm a lucky guy in many ways -- a lot of friends, a job I genuinely enjoy, a home in which I like to spend time -- but I'm getting tired of being single.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I talk and write a lot -- professionally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard to answer this and pretend to be at all modest. I think I'm a good conversationalist, a good writer, a good friend, and I make excellent soup.

I'm a semi-speedy road biker [many trips down the California coast on AIDS/LifeCycle] though New York-Nyack, Nyack-New York can get pretty boring.

No one seems to want to know what I'm really bad at, but in the spirit of full disclosure, I hate shopping and am helpless buying clothing. I'm pretty tidy but cannot bring myself to make the bed every day, and every once in a while, I forget that I have something in the fridge and buy Thai food on the way home from the office.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends
Coffee
The gym
Literature
Free speech
Talking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exhausted.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fond of Gloria Estefan.