Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Who knows, really? Mostly a decent guy, too many books, not nearly
People probably describe me as intense, hyper-verbal, meaninglessly
energetic. I'm a native New Yorker who returned after a few years
in California and have been trying very hard to amalgamate the
coasts into one way of living...unsuccessfully, thus far but I'm
not without hope. For a while, I felt quite central to life in New
York, or gay life anyway, and I'm kind of grateful that this period
of life is passing me by.
What else? Got rid of cable about six months ago which seems to be
working out well. I go to the gym in the morning...in fact, I
prefer to do a lot of things in the morning...and wish most of my
lunches did not take place over the keyboard. End-of-day, if I've
got plans, I'd prefer a quiet, even an unpopular restaurant to one
where I cannot hear someone talk.
I'm a lucky guy in many ways -- a lot of friends, a job I genuinely
enjoy, a home in which I like to spend time -- but I'm getting
tired of being single.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I talk and write a lot -- professionally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hard to answer this and pretend to be at all modest. I think I'm a
good conversationalist, a good writer, a good friend, and I make
I'm a semi-speedy road biker [many trips down the California coast
on AIDS/LifeCycle] though New York-Nyack, Nyack-New York can get
No one seems to want to know what I'm really bad at, but in the
spirit of full disclosure, I hate shopping and am helpless buying
clothing. I'm pretty tidy but cannot bring myself to make the bed
every day, and every once in a while, I forget that I have
something in the fridge and buy Thai food on the way home from the
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who are you looking for?
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