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41 F Boston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:53pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
For someone who was pretty conservative when I was young I've now turned into somewhat of a free spirit (some might disagree though :). I guess as every woman I'm a bit complex :). I'm an expat & have lived more than 10 years of my life in US now... but still cannot get rid of my accent. I love being my age and don't really miss my younger years. I've discovered new passions - like photography and simply having design and artistic abilities. I'm happy, content, self sufficient and as secure as they get :). I believe a good relationship is the one you want to be in, not the one you feel obligated to stay in... If you're looking for someone who will be checking up on you every 15 min - that definitely isn't me.
I believe the best decisions are made when a person feels free & not pressured. I have a fairly dry sense of humor and can be pretty sarcastic at times. I'm very confident but not full of myself. I'm not looking for someone out of my league. I've lived in several countries and have traveled to quite a few European countries that might be too many to name... I've enjoyed living in the seacoast area for over 10 years but I'm a city person at heart.

PS. I'm finally made my move from Portsmouth, NH to Boston... or to be more precise Chelsea :).
What I’m doing with my life
staying independent... and enjoying what life has to offer from travel to music, theater, movies, food and more..
I’m really good at
Not finding a right partner in life! Touché ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'll make up my mind about you before you even say a word :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - anything that is stimulating.
Music - jazz & classical are my favs but on my way to work i'll listen to very eclectic mix...
Movies - depressing ones - yes I do love them - the more psychologically complex they are - the more I love them :). Anything created by Almodovar or staring Javier Bardem... Mainly love independent films.
The six things I could never do without
I love nice things but I'm not over-attached to them. The only thing I probably can't do without is a good (european :) cup of coffee sat or sun morning...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How come men don't realize that listing I'm looking for "casual sex" together with "long term relationship" is the biggest turn off ever. Believe me - we get it - you're men so you'll never turn down a casual sex offer/opportunity. ;) Or is that too much honesty for OkC profile?
On a typical Friday night I am
either out with friends or watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a little freaked out about turning 40 last year but totally committed to embrace my 40s now ;).
And that couple of my pics are as recent as feb 2014 and one is about 10 yr old, if you can tell which one - good observation, if you can't - that's even better ;)!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are committed to staying young and you can handle dating a confident secure woman ;).
I'm looking for someone who can challenge me, inspire me and make me laugh... If you're intelligent, sophisticated, have a proper perception of decency but yet have a devilish side to yourself for some extra fun - maybe you're someone I'm looking for...