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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 29, 2014
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat), Yiddish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Karen Blixen, I'd like to hear from you! Cinderella and Scarlett O'Hara, please move on, Julia Roberts, too, also all kind of believers, be it in god, or the NRA. I am not religious. But I find Jacques Tati very funny.

I have an artsy profile here and well, then there is this one. I am not rich either (yet!) but I have other things to offer, amongst them a European mind. True partnership means to me that everybody contributes (spiritually and financially), not just the male part. Impress me. Show me that I am more for you than just a free meal. It is just a question of fairness, which means it is not automatically the man who pays, just because he has that Y-chromosome. I am not looking for you to pay my bills either. If that concept offends you, let’s stay friends and don’t read further.

I am not attracted to long distance conversation or electronic chit-chat of any form, or any conventional dating ceremonies or ritualized mating dances. I think there is either true chemistry or not, and you know it after a few seconds. It is that simple.

I like both privacy and company, but before a company is not deeply spiritual, I rather enjoy the silence in my country home, read a book, or I even write one.

First and foremost, this is a quest for a highly educated, beautiful woman, long hair, blue or green eyes. We should inspire each other. I am looking for a (sexy) librarian , or a Ph.D. or even a professor. You should be well travelled and you should know the world. Your passport should have stamps in it.

However, I look for it all. You should also be sensual and enjoy all pleasures between us two. Here is the thing: Outside the bedroom, I want you to be gentle, witty, classy and a great conversationalist. You can expect the same.

Is that you? Then we might have a great time together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being in the field of art and music.
I’m really good at
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cooking and listening. Sometimes at the same time…
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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everything which stimulates you. Either your tastebuds or your brain.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
doing something meaningful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thinking. (Also on a typical Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live in a stone mansion from the 17th century but there is a direct bus ride to the city. My kitchen has sun from three sides. It feels like a winter garden.
You should message me if
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you share my mindset. Or if you are just interested in a smart, witty, well travelled, gentle, compassionate and sensitive European gentleman.