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EvaninPA

46 M Palo Alto, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:13am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Location location location. Rarely available short- or long-term rental in a peerless neighborhood. Panoramic views contrast with plenty of intimate spaces. Gourmet, eat-in kitchen or more formal dining easily supported. Modern and friendly exterior, cozy interior with ample closet space. Well-maintained, but seeks a woman’s touch. Option to buy.

I do know where I'm headed and now I'm figuring out who's coming with me (woe to those who answer these questions out of order). I've coded, played guitar, been heart-broken, and broken hearts, tried my hand at Bridge, and would love to be a better swing dancer. I prefer being outside, shop as if I’m a Navy SEAL, and might laugh at off-color jokes. I watch very little TV (excluding college sports), love live jazz and classical music, and lately have been choosing audio books over NPR. I've been known to run through sprinklers, drive past freeway exits, and travel 21,000 miles in a single summer.

The most influential person in my life has been my grandmother. At 93, she was still playing golf and bridge, reading at least two books, cooking to entertain, and conversing with verve. She was extremely active in civic affairs, especially League of Women Voters. Her Midwestern sensibility appeals to me, even though I'm confident I could only live on either coast of the US. She's also a very strong personality. On a cross-country drive, another grandson was surprised they met so many drivers they knew. According to my grandmother, they all had colorful names you can't repeat on the radio....
What I’m doing with my life
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wanting what I have, doing what I can, and being who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
breaking rules, being spontaneous, dicing an onion, singing off tune, travelling, writing, simplifying, making a chili that will sizzle your tongue and bring you back for more, and long, slow kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and that I'm a good listener
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Dark chocolate, citrus, lamb, blackened pepper salmon, roasted root vegetables, walking in light rain, running in downpours, beaches, dark forests, deep canyons, sunshine, art galleries, museums, open air markets, jazz, classical, Hitchcock, Shawshank Redemption, Argo, Roman Holiday, Paul Simon, Dave Matthews, classic rock, David Kennedy, Jared Diamond, Brian Fagan, Fernand Braudel, Will Durant, John Feinstein, Andrew Clement, Neil Gaiman, Clifford Geertz, Robert Sopolsky, Salman Rushdie, William Styron, Roman Holiday, Quentin Tarantino, Minnie Driver, Audrey Hepburn and Andie McDowell.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll limit this to six Cs:
Courage
Compassion
Curiosity
Culture
Cuisine
Chocolate
(and the 7th would be children, not necessarily in that order...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the best jokes I've forgotten, why we wash the least sensitive parts of our bodies with water and the most sensitive with paper, why Western society seems to be increasingly adept with short-term analyses and clumsy with long-term, why struggles are so valuable, my next vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends or cooking at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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would be whispered in your ear
You should message me if
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you love who you are and are having only half as much fun as you could be

or

I've already messaged you

and

the only organ you enjoy more than your brain is your heart

and

you live in abundance