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46 Palo Alto, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 25
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Location location location. Rarely available short- or long-term rental in a peerless neighborhood. Panoramic views contrast with plenty of intimate spaces. Gourmet, eat-in kitchen or more formal dining easily supported. Modern and friendly exterior, cozy interior with ample closet space. Well-maintained, but seeks a woman’s touch. Option to buy for an extraordinarily thoughtful tenant .

I do know where I'm headed and ultimately I'll be figuring out who's coming with me (woe (whoa?) to those who answer these questions out of order). But for now, a remarkably demanding job constrains my time and I'm seeking playdates with a grounded woman who still likes the swings, knows her way around three-story brio train structures and is as interested in me as she is in herself. Something long-term is conceivable, but for now my time availability suggests something "breezy" would be easier for me to keep my gal (and myself) happy.

I've coded, played guitar, been heart-broken, and broken hearts, tried my hand at Bridge, and would love to be a better swing dancer. I prefer being outside, shop as if I’m a Navy SEAL, and might laugh at off-color jokes. I watch very little TV (excluding college sports), love live jazz and classical music, and lately have been choosing audio books over NPR, although I clearly have a soft spot for 90s on 9 on SiriusXM. I've been known to run through sprinklers, sometimes drive past freeway exits, and travel 21,000 miles in a single summer.

The most influential person in my life has been my grandmother. At 93, she was still playing golf and bridge, reading at least two books, cooking to entertain, and conversing with verve. She was extremely active in civic affairs, especially League of Women Voters. Her Midwestern sensibility appeals to me, even though I'm confident I could only live on either coast of the US. She's also a very strong personality. On a cross-country drive, another grandson was surprised they met so many drivers they knew. According to my grandmother, they all had colorful names you can't repeat on the radio....
What I’m doing with my life
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wanting what I have, doing what I can and being who I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
breaking rules, being spontaneous, dicing an onion, singing off tune, travelling, writing, simplifying, growing dahlias, day lilies and roses, making a chili that will sizzle your tongue and bring you back for more; long, slow kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and that I'm a good listener. Some insist I resemble Robin Williams but I don't see it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Dark chocolate, citrus, lamb, blackened pepper salmon, roasted root vegetables, walking in light rain, running in downpours, beaches, dark forests, deep canyons, sunshine, art galleries, museums, open air markets, jazz, classical, Hitchcock, Shawshank Redemption, Argo, Roman Holiday, Paul Simon, Dave Matthews, classic rock, David Kennedy, Jared Diamond, Brian Fagan, Fernand Braudel, Will Durant, John Feinstein, Andrew Clement, Neil Gaiman, Clifford Geertz, Robert Sopolsky, Salman Rushdie, William Styron, Roman Holiday, Quentin Tarantino, Minnie Driver, Audrey Hepburn and Andie McDowell.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'll limit this to six Cs:
(and the 7th would be children, not necessarily in that order...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the best jokes I've forgotten, why we wash the least sensitive parts of our bodies with water and the most sensitive with paper, cow-tipping, why Western society seems to be increasingly adept with short-term analyses and clumsy with long-term, why struggles are so valuable, my next vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends or cooking at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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would be whispered in your ear
You should message me if
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you love who you are and are having only half as much fun as you could be


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the only organ you enjoy more than your brain is your heart


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