I'm a "relatively" normal adult who recently entered into his 30's and would like to actually settle for more than 3 dates, a cheap night of sex, and a hangover. I'm smart, I'm funny, I'm goofy, I'm loving, I'm stubborn, I'm sometimes unemotional, I'm sociable, and I love life. I won't say that I am the easiest person to understand initially - like all people, I am layered. I have some walls. I have some quirks. All of that great stuff, but I'm sweet and sincere! So that's a good thing, at least if you like that sort of thing.

I'm originally from the Chicago-land area, then outside DC and the NYC. I've been here about 9 years and it's my home I guess. I do a lot and I've done a lot and I want to continue the ride for as long as possible.

Lately, my full time job is running and managing a rec sports league (www.varsitygayleague.com). I wanted to create a social place for people to play, meet outside bars and have fun. But my background is in entertainment development and production.

I also spend my time doing work with The Trevor Project. I play dodge ball. And I am a single father raising a cuddly, lovable yellow lab who often breaks into the refrigerator and takes out food when I am not at home. I love him.

Helping friends, being fun, organizing things, cuddling my dog, playing sports, listing off stupid facts about movies, creating ideas to conquer the world, eating pie, and my job!

You tell me after we meet....

This would be a ridiculously long list. Let's just say, I love movies (especially horror). I own way too many and see way too many.

I love all kinds of music, but I'm really into pop jazz lately. Adele is a rock star right now. I love TV - I watch a huge amount of it from reality to drama to sitcoms. My tivo box is overly filled, but TV is just so good recently that it's hard not to find something good to watch. I don't love Real Housewives/Food Reality/Jersey shore type shit.

TV
Bicycle
Insulin
Creativity
Peanut Butter
Friends

Life. New ways to enjoy it. New ways to improve it. Understand why it's a hot mess sometimes. But mostly, thinking about the next step to great things.

Open to anything from a song to a drink. Just so long as it doesn't involve meth at a bathhouse.

If you genuinely think we might have something interesting to talk about, or could have a good date. I'd love for someone to actually want to give a date a shot, and if it fails, hopefully we'll know quickly and not have those awkward moments.