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32 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 20
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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east coast transplant traversing the wild west. new jersey roots with extended branches in philadelphia, portland, and now the bay area. painted my own thumb green and fancy the title urban homesteader.

in company, i always seem to be talking, eating or drinking (both alcoholic and non alcoholic beverages, for the record). when alone, i often get lost in literature or art projects.

most of my jokes are inappropriate and i thrive off folks i can match wits with. (and i don't mind ending sentences with prepositions.)

looking to meet new friends to share beverages, meals and adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
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serving delicious food and drink to pay my bills; plotting entrepreneurial advances; reading too many books at once; getting my hands dirty outside; making a mess in my kitchen; sifting through junk at thrift stores; hanging things on my walls.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking. eating. listening. traveling. hosting. decorating.
The first things people usually notice about me
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people seem to pick up fairly quickly that i'm from the east coast. i talk loud, laugh hard and say what i mean. most find that very endearing. ahem. most.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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writers: Saul Williams, James Baldwin, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Milan Kundera, Allen Ginsberg, Jack Kerouac, Charles Bukowski, Ernest Hemingway, Don DeLillio, just to name a few...

movies: fav's include Wes Anderson, Coen Bros, Jarmoush, Tarantino, Miyazaki and Almodovar films

music: really anything with soul. my itunes shuffle might include an eclectic mix of Bill Withers, Gangstarr, Mimicking Birds, Donnie Hathaway, Erykah Badu, Jose Gonzales, Mos Def, The XX, Tune Yards, Sharon Jones, Nina Simone, Shuggie Otis, Arcade Fire, The Roots, CocoRosie, Madlib, Neil Young, Common, Fleet Foxes, The Velvet Underground.

tv: well, its not tv, its hbo. and it streams for free on project free tv!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) a garden.
2) coconut oil.
3) a library.
4) fermented things.
5) connection.
6) found objects.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the universe.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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my humble desire for a better singing voice.
You should message me if
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You wanna shoot the shit over coffee. You desire connection. You can make me laugh on the first message.