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26 Kalamazoo, MI Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 25
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a young intellectual/creative type that loves long conversations, staying up late, and having adventures.

My orientation is closer to queer or pansexual than bisexual. I'm generally more interested in feminine people, but I'm more concerned with your personality and how we get along than your genitals. I've been exploring polyamory, and just trying to get a good sense of what I really want when it comes to intimacy.

I also identify as genderqueer, not male (pronouns are they, them, and theirs). I tend to present more masculine and act more feminine. I don't believe in the gender binary, and try very hard not to gender people. I feel like people should have the chance to gender themselves before I start making assumptions.

I'm a pretty open book, so ask me anything, and I'll tell you if you've crossed any lines.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently volunteering with The Trevor Project as a crisis counselor for their TrevorChat service and working on my Master's in Counseling Psychology at Western Michigan University with the intent of pursuing an LLP and working as a counselor when I graduate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. I care very deeply about others and am always willing to shoulder a burden or two. I'm also pretty good at trivia. My head is full of information that I've collected from sources I've long since forgotten. It's pretty cool sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a little bit outspoken about things that matter to me, especially matters of politics or religion. I'm also pretty openly nerdy about stuff I like.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Battle Royale, Harry Potter, A Prayer for Owen Meany, "I, Lucifer", His Dark Materials, The Vampire Chronicles, The Casual Vacancy, Looking For Alaska, The Casual Vacancy, The Cider House Rules

Movies - Wristcutters: A Love Story, Battle Royale, independent films, Fight Club, Miyazaki, Quentin Tarantino, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Fight Club, Rob Reiner films, Beauty and the Beast, Kevin Smith films, social and political documentaries

Shows - Doctor Who, Family Guy, 30 Rock, How I Met Your Mother, old school Nickelodeon, Invader Zim, Daria, The Simpsons, Adult Swim, Archer, Deadman Wonderland, United States of Tara, Weedsl

Music - Doctor Steel, Mika, Ninja Sex Party, Starbomb, Queen, Serj Tankian, Ella Riot, Tay Zonday, Adele, Nirvana, The Cure, Tom Petty, Modest Mouse, The Mountain Goats, 90's pop

Food - Fresh fruit, shrimp, pasta, peanut butter, potatoes in all forms. I'm also kind of an explorer, so I'll try just about anything as long as I'm pretty sure I won't get sick from it.

Games - I'm a big fan of roleplaying games. Some of my favorite series are Pokemon, Final Fantasy, Tales of, and Mass Effect. I also like tabletop games like Pandemic and Elder Sign, as well as tabletop RPGs like Pathfinder and World of Darkness. I'm a sucker for SNES games, and long-running Nintendo franchises. Feel free to message me for a discussion over which Zelda game was the best :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good books, my laptop/wifi, interesting people to talk to, cuddling, music, fun games
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The OkCupid sorting algorithms. Specifically what makes somebody a good match but not necessarily a good friend? Doesn't that kind of go with the territory?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with Western Michigan Gamers Guild. Exploring haunted houses, saving the world, and playing super offensive card games are just some of the wonderful things we do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I giggle like a Japanese schoolgirl. Mouth covered and everything. I'm told that this is adorable.
You should message me if
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You like to nerd out over things that you like. If you have ever been sad that you never got your Hogwarts letter. If you'd like to travel with the Doctor. If you like staying up late. If you are down for intelligent conversation. If you are silly. If you dance when you think nobody is watching. If you are absolutely fabulous, I want to meet you.

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