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45 M Albany, CA

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English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a visual designer who can build very complex web sites but doesn't know how to work the copier. I am a life coach who can help people overcome very difficult issues but I can't even read my own hand writing. I like to do things that challenge me and get me well out of my comfort zone, like getting my black belt in aikido after "only" 9 years and performing improv theater shows which still scares the bejesus out of the nerd in me.

As the youngest brother of 5 sisters, I have been well trained at how to respect women, like putting down the toilet seat you know, while honouring my own boundaries.
What I’m doing with my life
I have always believed it's possible to do good while doing well, and only recently started feeling it in my bones. This has gotten me super fired up to work on expanding my business.

I went to a business conference recently that completely blew my mind away, and made me realize how my obsolete way of thinking was blocking any opportunities in expansion the same way a big bouncer wouldn't let anybody in that fancy A-list party.

Wanting to practice my German and also experiencing the fun European culture I am planing to visit Berlin this summer.

I see one day having my laptop and a carry-on travelling the world and helping people wake up to their own amazing potential by having them appreciate the Everyday Magic :)
I’m really good at
• Listening and holding space
• Leaving vm messages in different character voices
• Learning languages and communicating in a few
• Reminding people just how awesome they are
• Investing in people in critical times.
• Not giving up on things I love to do
• Being grateful to be alive
• Making a delicious juicy portboello burgers and yam dessert
• Staying up all night when fired up
• Taking responsibility and not taking things personally
• Giving young people hope
The first things people usually notice about me
• My ever-present fedora
• My not so subtle, yet apparently pleasant accent
• That under my calm demeanor there is great intensity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A very small sample of what I love, top 4.


soul shaping: Jeff Brown
The only book that spoke to me so deeply that I couldn't stop highlighting every line

Wolrldbridger: Juliet and Jiva Carter
A book that completely changed my world view and my entire perspective of how reality works

Spontaneous Evolution: Bruce Lipton
Reading this I saw the incredible potential that I have and every single human being has as well as our collective

the new IQ : David Gruder
This book helped me understand what are the most essential needs in every human being


Matrix trilogy
The most important movies I ever saw, completely changing my point of view about everything in this world

A gorgeous movie with a powerful message that opened my heart and blew my mind away

American Beauty
A profound movie that so beautifully communicated the power of human spirit, and how we can always change

Peaceful Warrior
A movie about the power of human transformation beautifully showing the triumph of human spirit over adversity


I have loved her since 1984, she has fascinated me for 30 years

Pink Floyd
The deep lyrics, the masterful music has never stopped amazing me

Their gorgeous haunting music enchants me

Katy Perry
From deep transformational lyrics to dance music she will never stop fascinating me


I love persian, italian, indian, thai food. They are all very delicate, carefully put together, rich with spices, gorgeous looking, scrumptious and fragrant
The six things I could never do without
• The incredible joy of being on stage during an improv scene
• Kindness
• The sweet smell of baking a cake
• My tears streaming when my heart is blown wide open
• The ability of human spirit to triumph over adversity
• Feeling the sun over my skin, the sound of rain pouring gently
• Exquisite beauty everywhere from the blade of grass to ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
• How to become a better undercover rebel who can be unique and still be invited to parties.

• How to start a movement proclaiming goats without beards are not goats and bunnies without standing ears are not bunnies! I am not sure what they are. What can I say the movement is very much in progress

• If I should go to Burning Man again this year or to Europe instead.

• How many shirts, pants should I take on every trip so that my suitcase doesnt explode
On a typical Friday night I am
After trimming my beard I take a hot shower putting on black jeans, jacket and vest and my fedora. I will be going to my theater company next to Lanesplitters, where I will be performing an improv theater show in front of a full house. Afterwards I am ready to go the all night costume party in the city, no worries I brought the kilt and my faux fur coat. I can't wait to be with creative musicians, jugglers, artists, and fellow adventurers for the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I cry watching an infomercials or award shows and sometimes I hiccup while I cough, very annoying.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
The type of woman I find attractive tends to take care of herself physically, without being obsessed. She knows herself well enough to know her strengths and also is able to allow others to support her . She is inherently kind, sweet, and effortlessly caring for others but she knows how to set boundaries. When I speak with her about things that deeply move me she will have a clear opinion either in agreement or disagreement but not indifferent. If that sounds like you, send me a message and we will take it from there. thanks :)