Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a visual designer who can build very complex web sites but
doesn't know how to work the copier. I am a life coach who can help
people overcome very difficult issues but I can't even read my own
hand writing. I like to do things that challenge me and get me well
out of my comfort zone, like getting my black belt in aikido after
"only" 9 years and performing improv theater shows which still
scares the bejesus out of the nerd in me.
As the youngest brother of 5 sisters, I have been well trained at
how to respect women, like putting down the toilet seat you know,
while honouring my own boundaries.
I appreciate your visiting my profile. If you feel there may be a
possible fit I like to hear from you or you can "like" my profile.
I will get in touch with you then. I use "like" as a principal way
of gauging interest and contacting someone, not just their visiting
my profile. thanks!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have always believed it's possible to do good while doing well,
and only recently started feeling it in my bones. This has gotten
me super fired up to work on expanding my business.
I went to a business conference recently that completely blew my
mind away, and made me realize how my obsolete way of thinking was
blocking any opportunities in expansion the same way a big bouncer
wouldn't let anybody in that fancy A-list party.
I see myself one day having my laptop and a carry-on travelling the
world and helping people wake up to their own amazing potential by
having them appreciate the Everyday Magic :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Listening and holding space
• Leaving vm messages in different character voices
• Learning languages and communicating in a few
• Reminding people just how awesome they are
• Investing in people in critical times.
• Not giving up on things I love to do
• Being grateful to be alive
• Making a delicious juicy portboello burgers and yam dessert
• Staying up all night when fired up
• Taking responsibility and not taking things personally
• Giving young people hope
• Sensation play, bondassage.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
•That I like to play because as they say we don't stop playing when
we get old, we get old when we stop playing
• My not so subtle, yet apparently pleasant accent
• That under my calm demeanor there is great intensity
• That I really don't like to take things too seriously
• That I have no time for drama
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A very small sample of what I love, top 4.
soul shaping: Jeff Brown
The only book that spoke to me so deeply that I couldn't stop
highlighting every line
Wolrldbridger: Juliet and Jiva Carter
A book that completely changed my world view and my entire
perspective of how reality works
Spontaneous Evolution: Bruce Lipton
Reading this I saw the incredible potential that I have and every
single human being has as well as our collective
the new IQ : David Gruder
This book helped me understand what are the most essential needs in
every human being
The most important movies I ever saw, completely changing my point
of view about everything in this world
A gorgeous movie with a powerful message that opened my heart and
blew my mind away
A profound movie that so beautifully communicated the power of
human spirit, and how we can always change
A movie about the power of human transformation beautifully showing
the triumph of human spirit over adversity
I have loved her since 1984, she has fascinated me for 30
The deep lyrics, the masterful music has never stopped amazing
Their gorgeous haunting music enchants me
From deep transformational lyrics to dance music she will never
stop fascinating me
I love persian, italian, indian, thai food. They are all very
delicate, carefully put together, rich with spices, gorgeous
looking, scrumptious and fragrant
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• The incredible joy of being on stage during an improv scene
• The sweet smell of baking a cake
• My tears streaming when my heart is blown wide open
• The ability of human spirit to triumph over adversity
• Feeling the sun over my skin, the sound of rain pouring
• Exquisite beauty everywhere from the blade of grass to ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• How to become a better undercover rebel who can be unique and
still be invited to parties.
• How to start a movement proclaiming goats without beards are not
goats and bunnies without standing ears are not bunnies! I am not
sure what they are. What can I say the movement is very much in
•If I will go back to burning man one day
• How many shirts, pants should I take on every trip so that my
suitcase doesnt explode
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After trimming my beard I take a hot shower putting on black jeans,
jacket and vest and my fedora. I will be going to my theater
company next to Lanesplitters, where I will be performing an improv
theater show in front of a full house. Afterwards I am ready to go
the all night costume party in the city, no worries I brought the
kilt and my faux fur coat. I can't wait to be with creative
musicians, jugglers, artists, and fellow adventurers for the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I cry watching an infomercials or award shows and
sometimes I hiccup while I cough, very annoying.
I find eating dessert a very sensual experience. You can find that
and my other interests in my profile on FL,
I put my status as single because OKC sadly doesnt have "its
complicated". In fact, i don't know what single means really. The
only label I could agree with is open and open to being open.
I consider myself unlabelable not monogamous, not poly, just no
labels. Then what am I committed to? I am committed to my own self
growth in a relationship. So I seek relationships where I can have
the highest growth. That in itself means my partner in this
relationship would support me in my growth. I will stay in a
relationship as long as it helps me grow. Being committed to growth
in relationships means I seek a partner who herself is seeking
growth. Being in such a relationship helps us both grow. At the
same time if I feel my partner is not growing, that means she is
not commuted to her growth, which means the relationship is not a
way for me to grow. At that point I know I need to step away from
In other words when I commit to my own growth in a relationship
everything else works itself out, and I dont worry so much about
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
While I really dont have a physical type --be that appearance, age,
societal characteristics, or anything like that; since I believe
that can interfere with the magic that universe will create-- I do
have a certain type as far as energetic qualities are
Granted this can look like a lot of qualities I am looking for, I
am going deep within myself, asking myself who is your ideal match
who you can best serve, and be your ideal playmate? It takes a
certain authentic vulnerability and audacity, humility while not
settling for less than amazing to ask for what I want. And I guess
your ability to read and accept these qualities in itself is part
of what makes you attractive to me :)
I recently made an image of my ideal person that summarizes the
following paragraph. In case you want to see it in a quick glance
The type of woman I find attractive tends to take care of herself
physically, without being obsessed. She is in flow and can be
spontaneous but she keeps her promises and is not a flake. She
knows herself well enough to know her strengths and also is able to
allow others to support her . She is passionate and playful while
still able to be disciplined and serious when needed. She is open
to change, open to new possibilities. She is open minded, and has a
beginner's mind, while being nobody's fool, and very able to think
critically for herself, and respect herself. She strives to honour
herself while honouring others, knowing fully well how tricky that
balance can be. She is able to spontaneously break out into a dance
or be silly, as much as she can just sit still and have a very deep
sustained connection. She can be intensely active at times while
she is able to hang out and do nothing joyously other times. She is
inherently kind, sweet, and effortlessly caring for others but she
knows how to set boundaries and not to be taken for granted. Just
like me she will enjoy being of service to others as part of her
expression of being. When I speak with her about things that deeply
move me she will have an impassioned opinion either in agreement or
disagreement but not indifferent. If that sounds like you, send me
a message and we will take it from there. thanks :)
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