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43 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 9
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmmmm, of course this is biased but...I'm really good at technology ie. software programming / hacking, electronics, gadgets, etc. Then there's people and social skills, music, cooking, biking, traveling, and a few more. But I keep working on others so this list should grow....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people say my smile or energy is the first thing that stands out and creates a very positive sense of the man I am. Others say presence, intellect, genuine warmth, happy, or integrity. I've really not given this too much thought, other than being me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love...what is life without it?
Daily doses of music...listen, hum, play, sing
Family...part of my core
Real Friendships...share my world
Being Authentically Me
Being a Father to my two boys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living a good and happy life every day that comes...and what that means
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alternate Fridays or thereabouts, you'd find me practicing on the piano or sax, reading a good book, out for live music and dancing, watching a movie or hopping a plane somewhere :)

When it's my weekend with my two boys, we:
a) camp out in the living room with tents, s'mores, books and music
b) music lessons or game night
c) pillow fights, then movie night
d) ** Nothing typical here **
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On the silly, sort of self-deprecating side of things, I'm not particularly funny...sometimes, I wish I was and do laugh at myself quite often ;) But I'm a prankster and a kid at heart so I keep trying :)

On the more serious side, I'd offer that there are three things that drive me and I measure daily:

a)When this life is all said and done, I want to be able to say I lived and loved
b)I want to make this world a bit better than it was when I came in
c)I'd like to be the world's greatest Dad (well, considered to be in the discussion, by my family)

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