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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:59pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, C++
My self-summary
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Since all the cool kids are doing it: Instagram @ JPG_505

And I need to change my profile name. You know that screenname you had for LiveJournal in high school? It's pretty much that embarrassing at this point.

I love driving along empty roads taking in scenery and small towns. Learning new things, exploring new cities. I'm one to enjoy the journey more than the destination. Tend more towards the big idea stuff.

I've been described as intellectual, considerate, responsible, and gifted with a very unique perspective from life experience and circumstance. At my best I feel like a loveable geeky goofball.

I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking for something a little more serious than just friendship. It's a big world out there and would like a partner to experience it with ("with which to experience it" if you're a grammar snob but it sounds funny that way). Of course, that's a pretty lofty goal--First step: get out there and meet cool people!

Oh, and I'm more physics geek than pop culture gamer geek. I feel that's important to note...
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in education with a group that brings science education to classrooms. I get to take some pretty advanced concepts and make them approachable to kids of all ages.

I also manage books and property on the side.

An important part of my life is my family's farm outside Santa Fe. We have several hundred acres with gardens, pastures, cows, horses, and acres of back country to get lost in. I spent the first 20 years of my life trying to get off the farm, and now the next 20 trying to get back. I like to spend as much time there as I can taking care of the gardens.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Metanarrative and analogies. My brain works laterally.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My curly hair.

And unbelievable swagger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Epicurianism is a cornerstone of my life. I like the true, beautiful, and passionate. I live on a farm, like to cook, hike, drive, read good books, play good games, watch good movies.

Authors I like: McCarthy, Sedaris, Ed Abby, Le Guin, Asimov, Bradbury, Gibson, Vinge, Quinn. Hunger Games is one of the more recent enjoyable things I've read.

PBS or Current-type channels: Frontline, NOVA, Nature, ScienceNOW, This American Life (show). I've been meaning to binge on some Netflix'ed TV shows, and I'll take recommendations.

I also really enjoy cartoons. I have a soft spot for Genndy Tartakovsky, Chuck Jones, Tex Avery, Maxwell Atoms, Bob Clampett and Joe Murray.

Indie gaming hipster: Braid, Bastion, Portal, Homeworld, Binding of Isaac, Fallout series, System Shock 2, Chrono Trigger

Just about anything, as long as it's moderately healthy and/or local. I love fresh cajun food, green & red chile, mushrooms, fresh tomatoes. I also make some fantastic huevos rancheros.


I've been going through an unhealthy Ryan Adams obsession recently. Otherwise, alternative rock, 90's grunge stuff, electronica in the veins of Ratatat and Kaskade,, swing/swinghouse, melodic trance, Girl Talk and other fun mashups. And classical. Mostly Beethoven.

Ideally you'll enjoy this song:

Mostly sci-fi or comedy.

No Country for Old Men, Airplane!, Kill Bill, Serenity, Cowboy Bebop, Empire Strikes Back, Lego Movie, Men in Tights, Lord of the Rings, Léon, Black Dynamite, Yi Yi, Waking Life.


Cohens, Miyazaki, Brooks, Tarantino.



Good indie films and documentaries.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1). A laundry machine. An essential luxury in my book.

2). Olive oil. I defy you to find a better ingredient in the kitchen.

3). Solid cast iron cooking pan. Anything else is just amateur hour.

4). Clean socks.

5). Spicy foods. Tabasco sauce is included in my travel kit when I go overseas.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Big picture things like economic disparity, population growth and resource management, the sense of "place" of locations, civil rights. I really like looking at patterns of lights and synchronized human movement. If you have an interest or opinion on any of these things, I think we'll get along.

That, and cars. I loooove automobiles.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays, meh.

Saturday mornings is where it's at: Farmers market!

That said, I secretly want to become a street artist and make cheekily humorous social commentary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really need to watch more TV/Netflix. I feel like I'm missing out on a so many conversations because I haven't seen stuff like Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, etc...

Also, I use proper punctuation in my text messages. Weird? Maybe.
You should message me if
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Since OKCupid is broken and it seems most women receive dozens of "hey cutie" and proposition messages, here's the deal: Let's try a little female empowered dating. I don't want to contribute to the creep pool and send out a thousand messages in the hope that you might find mine more appealing than dozens of others. I might send a few, but for the most part If you think we would get along, send me a message instead. Game theoretically, this site is broken. Is that creepy in itself? Send me a message and let me know.

For inspiration, see:

Now then:

Keywords: Intellectual (I like intelligent women), adventurous, humorous, excitable, compassionate: You and me both.

Increase your chances of a response: Your pictures aren't all selfies. You send more than one line of text. Something in my profile caught your eye and you mention it.

Compatible sense of humor is a critical requirement.

You want to dress up like ninjas and go wheatpasting.