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45 Pasadena, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:28pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I'm often exploring new activities, as long as they don't require life insurance. Day trips, road trips, and traveling are the best. I'd like a partner who is active and wants to explore the the city, take the metro places, kayak, paddle board, hike, bike, etc. (I don't need an Iron Man or a dare devil, just someone who's got energy and is up for trying new things.) I'd also like someone who likes to read and talk about the world and ideas. I'm generally health conscious, but will still occasionally eat a half a box of Cap'n Crunch or go crazy on junk food at the fair.

I'm quite often happy and looking for a guy who is also positive and happy in his life. I'm opinionated yet easy-going and interested in others' opinions even when they are different than my own. I love to read, see films, and always have a new project in mind. I'll admit, when it comes to my projects, I can be more of a dreamer than a doer.

I love my family and friends and would prefer a guy who also has a strong network of family/friends.

High EQ is really important to me (even more than IQ), as are good ethics. I'm impressed by people who are doing something to make the world a better place, even if it's just a drop in the bucket.

I see myself as constantly curious, learning, and growing as a person, and want to be with someone who is similarly open-minded.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My career provides a sense of purpose and I feel lucky to have that, as well as to enjoy it as much as I do. In my free time, which I have quite a bit of, I'm a jack of all trades, a student of the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Predicting what is going to happen in a TV show or film (but I won't say it). This is why I don't watch film previews--they give it all away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Geek Love, The Road, The Dhammapada, Kitchen Confidential, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Quantum Self, most Joyce Carol Oates...

Movies: Planet of the Apes (original of course), Donnie Darko, 21 Grams, The Sweet Hereafter, The Decalogue, Sunset Boulevard, most Woody Allen...

TV: Twilight Zone, Dexter, Walking Dead, Sopranos, Web Therapy, The Colbert Report, Game of Thrones...

Music: Trip Hop, as well as a bit of every genre. Can't go wrong with good ole Classic Rock (Bowie to Steely Dan). Sparklehorse, Richard Buckner, Frank Black, PJ Harvey, DJ Shadow, Thievery Corp., Massive Attack...


Food: All of it! I try to go healthy during the week (low sugar, whole foods, cooking), but let myself indulge on the weekends. Sushi, vegetarian often, all kinds of seafood, pizza, spicy stuff, Schwarzbier, cheeseburgers, anything cheese for that matter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends, home, hot water, freedom, love, sustenance in all its forms.

Six I can, but don't want to do without: music, old school paper books, road trips, good conversation, art, and pizza.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life, philosophy, the book I'm reading, subjects related to my profession, things I want to do, the obscure. Foreign travel and road trips.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying a new restaurant or bar, seeing a film (particularly Indie, Foreign, Docs), at the home of friends or family, on a road trip, or on a date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dream about a 67 Mustang, 3-speed on the floor, sitting in a parking lot with the driver side door open, engine running, waiting for me.
You should message me if
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You relate.
You're emotionally healthy.
You enjoy life.