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33 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:25pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a creative, active introvert who has finally hit his stride.

Although I may appear young and innocent (I look a decade younger than I am) I am in fact a rather odd duck. I'm educated, cultured, articulate, and curious enough to remain a lifelong learner, but I try not to wear it on my sleeve or beat people over the head with my privilege. I prefer listening and absorbing to dictating and impressing. I'm more interested in others than I am in myself.

With dual careers in physical acting and Pilates I live a very active lifestyle - running all over Brooklyn and Manhattan daily. I work a little too hard but I'm attempting to invite meaning, joy, community, and positive change into my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a professional theatre actor and Pilates instructor.

I make new art that articulates the questions I find most intriguing and troubling. My work often derives from history and the hard sciences. I've done this for almost twenty years and I'm quite good at it. I can't see quitting anywhere short of the grave.

My second career is as a bodyworker, specializing in various bodymind centering techniques, performer training, and Contrology. I like helping people heal themselves and reconnect to their total potential. It amazes me what the bodymind is capable of achieving.

On the fun side, I enjoy taking classes at Om Factory and Purple Passion, painting, costume design, history, going to awesome queer costume parties, and dancing it up at silly show and clubs. I try to take a journey to another country at least once a year (planning for southeast Asia at the end of 2014).

I'm also attempting to invest in real estate in Brooklyn, which is totally crazy-making.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping calm
Metabolizing my alcohol faster than you
The first things people usually notice about me
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Super tall, dancerly movement patterns, and based on wardrobe, mannerisms, and grooming habits: probably gay.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Fridays are others' Thursdays: I stay in and do boring things. Saturday and Sunday, however, are another story. I'm out until the sun's well in the sky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was born without the part of the brain capable of jealousy. It feels pretty fantastic.
You should message me if
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You're a good person. What that means is open to interpretation.

Tall ladies (5'8" and up), dandy gentlemen, those who like to dance, and people who passionately pursue what they love seldom fail to captivate me.

I'm seeking new friends, collaborators, adventurers, and possibly maybe lovers. The lady I date will know all that occurs, but that doesn't have to necessitate sex or icky poly stuff (poly: ew). I'd rather meet amazing people than put the cart ahead of the horse in a desperate hunt for sex, love, or a relationship. Let me be clear: I'm not looking for casual or meaningless sex; I'm looking for adventures with amazing people.