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ExBFMaterial

35 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:15am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a mystery shrouded in an enigma all wrapped up in a stylish beard. A champion of the underdog who will tell you what I really think. Currently training for a half marathon. Always thinking about coffee, my next project and then again about how much coffee will be needed to complete said project. Generally stoked on life, curious to know all the wild, woolly inhabitants of this planet and their myriad shapes, stripes and personality types - including you. GGG, sex-positive, feminist and open-minded.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating culture. Pushing the edge of my comfort zone. Making change, not making excuses. Going outside. Building bridges. Burning the Man. Practicing kindness, saying yes and not taking things personally. Eating local, organic foods and cooking whenever possible (though my inner fat kid is constantly whispering words to the contrary). Traveling lots. Caring for myself and then caring for others. Being f#$%ing awesome (and humble about it). Typing stuff into boxes. Trying to spend less time typing things into boxes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...achieving that poignant balance of pragmatism, optimism and sarcasm. Hosting trivia nights. Laying down seriously groan-worthy puns. Finding beauty in the mundane. Cooking delicious food for you. Spelling. Fostering community.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Teddy bear face with an Oakland booty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Four Agreements, Einstein's Dreams, Dress Your Family Up in Cordouroy and Denim, Zeitoun, Invisible Man, Angry Black White Boy, Last Night a DJ Saved My Life, How to Open Your Own Coin-Operated Laundromat.

Film: Wes Anderson, Woody Allen, Miranda July, David Lynch, Michel Gondry etc etc. Documentaries and 80's flicks about robots falling in love.

Music: So much of it and yet, so little hard drive space left. Literally anything and everything *including* rap and country. Try me.

TV: I binge once in a while to help me procrastinate but not overly interested in watching things - I'd rather be doing. But since you're still reading, I do like adult cartoons like Bojack Horseman and Bob's Burgers quite a bit.

Food: Yes! I like it!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Coffee
Google Calendar
Real Human Connection
Dad Humor
Pants

(#6 is a lie)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"The art of happiness is to serve all" - a quote taped to my laptop keyboard
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making speakers go boom in your local area discotheque.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cried while watching The Death of the Incredible Hulk made-for-TV movie.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to go to India with me. Or, y'know...get some coffee.