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39 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Adopted New Yorker from small-town southeastern PA. Extroverted introvert (INTJ) with a sarcastic sense of humor. Looking for the real thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Moving neighborhoods, switching jobs...among other things. Trying to eat out less. Biking instead of walking.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Details. Random acts of creativity. Listening. Observing. Analyzing. Organizing. Pontificating. ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sexy hair? My proper use of grammar? My New Balance m587's (the most comfortable sneakers ever made, with Rollbar and Absorb technology)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Catcher in the Rye, Steve Jobs, Marina and Lee, Jump, Neither Here Nor There

Movies: BTTF 1-3, Groundhog Day, Lost in Translation, Life is Beautiful, A Beautiful Mind, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Ice Storm, Garden State, Naked (Mike Leigh film, unrelated to Sedaris book), Airplane!, Hot Shots!, and generally movies with exclamation points in the titles...

TV: Recently watched a PBS documentary about koalas. They are fascinating little buggers (to speak the local tongue)! Cancelling cable was one of the best things i've done in a while! I'd rather be watching an independent film, documentary, PBS, etc. I do enjoy the occasional Pawn Stars, Seinfeld or The IT Crowd re-runs, Family Guy, Daily Show, etc.

Music: Anything good....

Food: Anything with peanut sauce
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) friends
2) challenge
3) solitude
4) hugs
5) pizza
6) blackout curtains
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to be personally / professionally in the next 1-3 years

All the things i would be tempted to buy at 2 a.m. if i lived in suburbia (that garden hose that contracts to like a 10th of its size is pretty cool)

Time travel

Finding new things to do

My next trip... :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In/out with friends or making a late night trip to Duane Reade...keepin' it real, yeah ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Recently i've gone from cursing the bike riders cutting in front of me as i'm walking, to cursing the pedestrians walking in front of me as i'm bicycling... Perspective is a funny thing. ;-)
You should message me if
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You are intelligent, independent, and passionate about things you care about. You enjoy challenge and like to push yourself. You will go to the novelty shop and play with all the silly things with me. You agree Legos are the most awesome thing invented, ever. You have a solution for cleaning that small strip of the kitchen floor between the side of the counter and the fridge. You are ready for something serious / real and are done dating boys instead of men. You know yourself well, truly believe you deserve to be respected and treated well, and want a relationship with real intimacy, communication, and understanding. You've read this far.