Not interested in games or hookups. Never married, no kids, relatively drama free*.
*Most of my "drama" comes from being a neurotic adopted New Yorker (think Mad About You). So if you can deal with this, put me in my place when needed, banter with me lovingly over stupid meaningless shit that just brings us closer, tell me to shut the fuck up and just chill sometimes, and we can have sex on the kitchen countertop on certain occasions, things will be just fine. ;-)
Please find geeky sexy and don't be religious in any way, shape or form.
Be extroverted but know your homonyms.
I will always be somewhat of a lost soul, but i'm doing just fine.
Introvert disguised as extrovert when i feel like it. MBTI's have become so cliche on this site, so go ahead and guess if you want to...
I hate my age. It sounds so "old" to me, and definitely much older than i feel most days. Not because i care about the number, but because i think for some people who haven't met me in real life yet, it inclines them to make assumptions about my life up until this point that are untrue. Please ask, and never assume.
I hate text messages and emails. Let's meet for real conversation. It's what all humans should do.
"I don't care you who are, where you're from, what you've done..." etc. Who you are today, what guides you as a person, and what you want to be going forward is all that matters. I can be very judgmental and critical of people sometimes which are perhaps my greatest faults, but i will never judge you for having tried to live life to its fullest, for asking hard questions or making tough decisions, or for having tested and pushed yourself in ways many people are afraid to or will never do (even to fucked up consequences on occasion). I have just told you my 2 greatest faults, so if you can look past these and see the positive in someone who really tries to be a better person each day, i promise to do everything i can to be the best possible person/friend/boyfriend/more that i can be to you. That is the most honest answer i can give. I will give you flowers unexpectedly and make you French Toast in bed.
Sarcasm a must.
No smokers need apply.