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50 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 4:27am
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Judaism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Entertainment / Media
- Relationship Type
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Editing things (and not just in terms of words)
I dig most things noir, Chandler, Hammett, Ellroy, Bukowski, especially noir that's set in L.A. And lots of contemporary fiction: DeLillo, Robert Stone, Junot Diaz, Michael Chabon, William Boyd...
Just cracked the new Jonathan Lethem. Not feeling it. Currently reading The Flamethrowers, and enjoying--as both a West Coast native and an Easrt Coast snob.
It seems to me that all of the good (rock) music of the last 30 years can be traced to four sources: The Velvet Underground, The Stooges, The Byrds, and Black Sabbath. Discuss.
I try not to be dogmatic. I listen to lots of other stuff--bebop and hard bop; reggae and dub; funk and soul; Elmore James, Big Joe Turner, Little Walter; Big Star, John Fahey, Neil Young, PJ Harvey, Tom Waits, Nick Cave. I grew up on L.A. punk rock and will always worship at the church of X and Black Flag.
Generally speaking, I am culturally voracious and drawn to stuff that unsettles even as it soothes.
The girl's eyelashes.
The cast iron pan.
You know, the usual shit.
Also: How far short this country falls of its promise.
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 30–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You continue to believe—despite evidence to the contrary—in the possibility of happiness.
Your taste is impeccable. And you know it. And you would enjoy arguing that point.
You are inclined to believe that less is more. Except when it isn't.
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