I am spiritual, intricate, and nonchalant.
My Self-Summary
Analytical. Emotional. Empathic. Imaginative. Philosopher. Mystic.
Magickal. Caring. Supportive. Optimistic. Realistic.
Idealist.
"Don't be surprised when you find that blood is Nature's tear; for,
sooner or later, you'll realize that Nature's blood is
clear."
Okay, I guess it's about time that I skip the pretense and explain
myself a bit.
I tend to consider myself a spiritual
Wiccan, yet it is merely how I choose to
flavor my perspective. It just makes life a little more meaningful
and a little less dull. Sometimes it's nice to notice the potential
interconnectedness of all things.
Other than that, I'm just a normal guy who likes to hang out with
friends, occasionally go out dancing, write
poetry, play games with friends (cards,
video games, board games, etc.), read books, mess around on my bass
guitar, hike through a park on nice days, and ponder the world.
Okay, maybe that doesn't really make me a "normal guy," but that
goes into the philosophical question of "normal" where we probably
don't want to go right now. I feel normal, so I think it's best to
leave it at that.
Those seeking further information about me can always read my
LiveJournal. If such a journal is deemed too personal, just refer
to my info page.
http://flamesinger.livejournal.com/profile
I most appreciate intelligent conversation and inspiring words.
These days it is becoming all too common to find increasingly
little of both.
As of late, I've recently found myself single again, so I'm just
looking to get to know people and form friendships. I'll need some
time before I'm anywhere near "dating space" again.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am still working on completing my Bachelor's of
Science in
Computer Science while working
full time at a local Starbucks. (Independent coffeehouses here in
Indy either can't pay as well or don't stay in business very long,
it seems. In the end, I may work for the Corporate, but I still
support the Independents.)
I also do free astrology charts and interpretations for fun in my
spare time, should someone be interested. Just let me know.
I’m really good at
Understanding the inner depths of
Astrology or the
Myers-Briggs
Personality Types; Maintaining
realistic expectations
of people; Software Design; Breathing new life into old computers;
Being a Proponent for
Open Source Software;
Visual-Spatial Orientation (includes direction sense); Listening;
Problem-Solving; and long, philosophic discussions concerning the
particularities of impractical topics...
The first things people usually notice about me
Umm, I'm not as serious as I appear. I also tend to be too much of
a geek/dork/nerd/whatever for my own good. :)
Or it could be that I have a variation of the typical
computer-geek/guitarist look: particularly the long hair, usually
tied back.
Also, I may live in Indiana, but I tend to despise Country Music,
"Classic" Rock, and watching sports. Of course, this is not
entirely inclusive. More likely, it's just some of the lifestyles
they seem to perpetuate...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books:
Neverwhere by
Neil Gaiman;
Burning Chrome
by
William
Gibson
(I also tend to enjoy reading software manuals, astrology books,
and random philosophy books, particularly Plato, Descartes, and
some Nietzsche.)
Movies:
The Crow,
Sin City,
The Order,
The
Lord of the Rings,
Serenity,
MirrorMask,
Advent Children,
The Illusionist,
The
Prestige
Music (not in any particular order)
:
Dream
Theater,
Evanescence,
Enigma,
Endless Blue,
VNV Nation,
The Last Dance,
The Cure,
BT,
Everclear,
Loreena McKennitt,
Ani DiFranco,
Tori Amos,
Sarah
McLachlan,
My Life with the
Thrill Kill Kult,
NIN,
From Autumn To Ashes,
Armor For
Sleep,
Finch,
Senses Fail,
Death Cab
For Cutie,
Dashboard
Confessional
Food:
Sushi, Greek, Indian, and fresh strawberries :)
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, Computers, Books/Music/Thought,
Imagination, Friendship, and
Possibility.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the world's possibilities and how to better myself emotionally and
spiritually, but it's mostly just a personal way to maintain some
sense of optimism in the world. A little too introspective for my
own good, I also appreciate a good card game and hanging out with
friends just as much.
Always searching for a greater understanding of the world around
me, I constantly like to ask why. I could easily imply something
profound here, but it's really just curiosity.
I find the sociological implications posed by a site such as
OkCupid to be quite fascinating yet disturbing. It just shows how
truly fickle attraction is and how completely independent of
compatibility it remains.
...or it could just be my flawed perspective...
On a typical Friday night I am
One of the following: enjoying a good book, spending time with
friends, or on my laptop at one of the local independent
coffeehouses that don't pay very well.
Other nights of the week, I might be found at the local goth club
or a punk show, for I do enjoy both dancing and moshing,
respectively.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I secretly love horrible puns, as long as they are in good taste.
They remind me of my insatiable love for perspective.
Oh, I also really love Scrabble.
You should message me if
you would just like to chat, if you find any of my profile
interesting and would like to know more, or if you could "just
maybe put it all to words and make me go, 'you know, I never heard
it put that way!'"