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51 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 25
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm in my element when I'm in small crowds as opposed to large crowds. I enjoy a few close relationships as opposed to an abundance of casual acquaintances. I'm very close with my family and looking for someone who is as well.

I’m smart, passionate, fun and funny. I live a relaxed lifestyle, but very passionate about the things that interest me (including you). :) I’m not obsessed with having to lead a healthy lifestyle all the time, but I strive to eating well, workout regularly, and get a good night’s sleep; because I know that's where it’s at when it comes to living longer! (And yes, wine is good for that too…).

I love what I do, but I work to live, not live to work, so I'm always on the look out for new things to get into. I'm always interested in things related to music, especially live music, the outdoors, culture and the arts. I am curious and adventurous, open-minded, mentally and emotionally solid.

I'm equal parts home-body, and outdoorsy . When I’m outdoors I'm either riding my bike, going to the park, playing pickup or simply walking around the city taking in the sights. I like camping and hiking but don't do it much.

With you I'm Kind, honest, loyal, sensual, intimate, fun, communicative, and emotionally present.

I am interested in a long term relationship with someone who's goal is also happily ever after.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
E.B White said it best, "I get up every morning determined to both change the world and to have one hell of a good time. Sometimes, this makes planning the day difficult."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being present.
Being a gentlemen.
Paying attention to the details.
Dressing myself.
fixin’ stuff.
Knowing my limits.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not much of a fiction reader. I prefer non fiction. I'm also a big magazine and Blog junkie.

I like going to movies, though I tend to Netflix.

music: Damien Rice, William Fritzsimmones, Joe Purdy, Ray LaMontagne, Joshua Radin, Iron and Wine, Rachael Yamagata, Alabama Shakes, Sade, David Gray, Adele, Corinne Bailey Rae, Keaton Henson James Vincent McMorrow, Marcus Roberts.

Food: mom's cooking, sushi, Koren, creole, Indian, baked goods.
(Actually I like eating. if you do too, we will get a nicely).

Other Faves: Avocados, Budo, Danish modern design, Thom Browne, Ted talks, Blue Bottle, PRI, salted caramel ice cream, Podcasts, Pistachios, Boston Baked Beans (candy coated peanuts),
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends and family
love (I'm a fool for it)
A significant other
a nice pair of shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to stay Relevant.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about (or in)...really it just depends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not a virgin
You should message me if
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You want to live happily ever after.