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40 Rijswijk, Netherlands Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Black, White
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm that 'content' with the way life is treating me.

Usually avoiding stress as much as I can, especially at work. There's a difference between getting the job done and high blood pressure!

I like to think that I'm very open about most things and I love a good conversation. Just don't expect me to share a lot of things out of the blue; if you want to know something about me, ask me.

I'm also somewhat of an observer; I get to find out a lot about people by just using my eyes and ears. This is why, especially in groups, I can be a bit silent at times. I'm not bored or shy, just paying attention :)

Through OkC I met a lady who introduced me to polyamory. What struck me was that, even before I heard the term, I had similar thoughts and opinions about relationships, ie. why do I need to restrict myself to only one partner? What is wrong with sharing an intimate, emotional connection with people besides your 'significant other'?

The world is filled with so many exciting, interesting and beautiful people, that I find it to be a waste directing all of my energy at just one single person at a time.
As long as everyone is honest with and open to each other I don't see any moral objections.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it one day at a time. I'm not a big fan of long term planning, this leaves more room for spontaneity.

My work in customer support pays the bills, but lately I've been wondering if I shouldn't be doing something (more) fulfilling. If and when I've got that figured out, I'll get back to you...

I'm a big fanatic, not just a fan, of EDM (electronic dance music) in general and techno in particular. I've enjoyed myself on dancefloors in clubs, warehouses and airports since November 21st, 1992 and am not planning on stopping any time soon.
If you ever feel the need for some serious dancing, let me know.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, keeping my mouth shut if I have nothing useful to say (useful to me, not to you), being very patient
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Just recently I was told that I'm very WYSIWYG.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When I was in high school, I really had a thing for Stephen King and Clive Barker. I never finished Imajica and haven't touched a book since.

I usually watch Comedy Central: The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Scrubs, Family Guy, The Middle.
Shows like Homeland, Dexter, Person of Interest and Carnivàle are regularly downloaded and viewed when I want to. Following shows on tv frustrates me because of the commercial breaks.

I'm a big fan of movies, so I visit the local movie theatre at least once a week. I have too many favorites to list, but anything by the Coen brothers/Fuqua/Abrams/Aronofsky is fine by me.

Besides anything techno? Talk Talk, Paul Simon, Smashing Pumpkins, K's Choice, Prodigy, Sting, Donna Summer, Ashford & Simpson, Moby
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My sense of humor
2. At least one good friend
3. My optimism
4. My digital camera
6. My perfect math skills
7. My non-conformist nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what the world would be like without money.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working 'til 22:00 and hoping that I don't have to go to work tomorrow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't stand the sound of bare feet in those foam bath slippers!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you like to dance
- you love to dance
- you have to dance
- you have any suggestions on what my apartment should look like when I'm done redecorating