Usually avoiding stress as much as I can, especially at work. There's a difference between getting the job done and high blood pressure!
I like to think that I'm very open about most things and I love a good conversation. Just don't expect me to share a lot of things out of the blue; if you want to know something about me, ask me.
I'm also somewhat of an observer; I get to find out a lot about people by just using my eyes and ears. This is why, especially in groups, I can be a bit silent at times. I'm not bored or shy, just paying attention :)
Through OkC I met a lady who introduced me to polyamory. What struck me was that, even before I heard the term, I had similar thoughts and opinions about relationships, ie. why do I need to restrict myself to only one partner? What is wrong with sharing an intimate, emotional connection with people besides your 'significant other'?
The world is filled with so many exciting, interesting and beautiful people, that I find it to be a waste directing all of my energy at just one single person at a time.
As long as everyone is honest with and open to each other I don't see any moral objections.