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41 San Carlos, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:50pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Post grad
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Short Version:
I am an easy going, respectful and reasonably open minded person. I like to find someone who feels comfortable about herself and around me.

Long Version:
About Me:
- Born and grew up in Taiwan. Been in United States since 1998. My heritage is the backbone of who I am, but I grow and evolve with every life experience I have.
- My sense of humor takes time to digest and grow, but it can only go bigger and stronger. I am pretty good at finding and enjoying interesting things in almost everything. The best jokes, though, I better keep for myself (or the special someone).
- The one thing I cannot tolerate is lying. I don't lie and I cannot stand liars.
- I realized at young age that I was not as creative as I thought. So I gave up my dream of becoming an architect (hi Costanza) and got into the computer field instead. I guess that's a form of architecture. :)
- I appreciate simplicities. I guess as I grow older and wiser, I realized that many things in life aren't as important as I originally thought. I can then focus more on what really matters.
- I have a beautiful teenage daughter, who means the world to me. Seeing her smile makes my day. She's very supportive on me finding the special someone, because I deserve it. Also because she doesn't want me to be lonely once she leaves home to college (her own words).
- I am a genuinely nice person. I help people whenever I can, but won't over stretch myself.
- I am opinionated but accepting. I wouldn't try to convince people with different opinions and ideas, and expect people to treat me the same.
- I enjoy biking, hiking, exploring restaurants, or day trip. I enjoy watching all kinds of sports, especially baseball and softball.
- Food: Japanese, Taiwanese, Thai, Italian.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to work hard and play hard. Fighting off laziness and enjoying different experiences and different activities. I like to stay busy, which makes the once in a while relaxation much more rewarding and enjoyable.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the positives in things and people, but also aware of the flaws.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: My favorite authors include Michael Crichton, Tom Clancy, Dan Brown, and Stephen King. Lately I read anything my daughter suggested.

Movies: I'm more into scifi, but pretty much anything goes. Some favorites include Lord of the Rings series. Avengers. Batman (Tim Burton), Batman series (Chris Norlan). Saving Private Ryan. Jiro Dreams Of Sushi.

Shows: The Walking Dead, Arrow, Flash, Big Bang Theory, Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, Seinfeld.

Music: Almost everything but rap. Personal favorites include Beatles, Eric Clapton, BB King, Steve Vai, Norah Jones, Diana Krall. Nowadays I listen to anything on the radio, gotta keep up with the trend, isn't it?

Food: Japanese, Italian and Taiwanese cuisines are my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This is a tough one... But for now, they are:
- Family
- Friends
- Love
- My dog
- Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How's the real life technologies compare to my favorite scifi worlds. An universal translator for Christmas would have been nice, for now...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Go out with friends or stay home and relax.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are:
- None smoker
- Not a drug user
- Can sit through a baseball game.
That's about it. The rest we can figure out during our conversation. I believe that direct communication is the best way to get to know someone.