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29 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:37pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Malay (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a little tired of charades, so here goes:

I don't do "casual" relationships. If I ever message you, it's because I think you and I have a potential for a future together.

I have had my heart broken horribly, but I still believe in lasting agape-love that is both all-consuming and sustainable. And that is because...

My model of a relationship are my parents. They met when my dad was 16 and my mum was 14, and until now they are still doing the PDA thing. Yes, I am looking for love, but do know that I am extremely monogamous.

Sex is great, but I don't want you to "give" it to me.

My nick here on OKC is a Monty Python reference. Calling out that reference goes a long way.

TL;DR: Straight dude looking for intelligent long term partner with few to none hang ups about romance.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I tell stories, some of which, I get paid for.

There's also my other calling, which is to make people understand just how awesome they actually are, so that they can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning. Get me interested with anything and I will pick it up in record time.
Suspending Disbelief. I am naturally curious but with a strong streak of skepticism from my past. This one skill has allowed me to get stories I would never have been able to tell otherwise. It also happens to be my most profitable trait so far.
Pattern Matching. Quite a lot of times, I'd match two seemingly unrelated circumstances and come up with an observation that oftentimes either bowls people over or falls flat explosively.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. They tend to betray my real age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Two books that changed my life:
1) The Answer by John Assaraf and Murray Smith
2) The 4 Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss

Fiction-wise, I recommend any book by:
1) Neil Gaiman
2) Terry Pratchett
3) Warren Ellis

1) Fight Club
2) Miller's Crossing
3) Infernal Affairs 2
4) Spirited Away
5) Silly, sugary romance movies. Examples: It's a Boy Girl Thing, Music and Lyrics, and Nottinghill.

TV Shows:
1) Sherlock - Bromance with mystery
2) House - What do the evidence imply?
3) The West Wing - There's good work. Then there's GOOD work.
4) Stargate SG1 - Major Sam Carter. Nuff said.
5) Ed - Romance. High School. Julie Bowen.
6) Firefly - Whedon in SPAAAAaaaaaceeee
7) Castle - Nathan Fillion playing himself as a best selling author.

1) Upbeat, melodic music. Good example: SNSD - Gee
2) Epic orchestral music. Example: 2 Steps from Hell, Nobuo Uematsu
3) 80s Music

1) Nom nom nom nom
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assumption: Everything on the bottom two levels of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is fulfilled. That should take all the stupid answers out...

1) A book, preferably The Science of Getting Rich
2) iPhone with charger.
3) A goal, written on a 3x5 card
4) Pen and Paper
5) Name cards
6) House Keys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

How to tell better stories.

What's for lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out and about with friends or making new ones as I go along.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Internally, I am more intense than is comfortable for most people. I usually put up a front that makes people think I don't have a care in the world.

That is only my defense mechanism. I care a little too much and I am aware that I can only do so little.

Which is why I tend to focus very hard on one thing at a time and ignore every thing else. Sometimes, that is a person. It can get stifling, but if you like some hardcore attention, you should give me a try.

I am a human being, not a human doing. Awesome is something that I am, it's not something that I do. What this means is that I am okay with who I am.

Who I am will grow and change but for now, I am perfect in my imperfections.
You should message me if
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... Well now, if you managed to come all the way down here, then I applaud you. You, miss (or sir), might be someone I would like to speak to.

However, if I do not see you on my visitors' list, then I am not interested either. If you are on the A-list and are on stealth mode, I'd appreciate it if you mentioned the fact.