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My self-summary
AMAB, he/him/his work fine. I am attracted more to femininity and androgyny. I will respect your pronouns my best-est.

Depression, autism, social anxiety. I am open about my disabilities so that other people can better navigate me. If these somehow make me seem burdensome or less enriching as a person, then I didn't want to talk to you anyways.

By extension, I'm mental-illness-friendly!

I'm feminist as I can be.

Veganism/vegetarianism are kind of important to me.

If I don't get back to you right away, it doesn't necessarily mean I hate you. I tend to have to wait for the right mood to engage with people. But then, sometimes, I also won't respond because I have no energy to put into my interactions. Sometimes, still, I don't think there's anything we have to talk about.
What I’m doing with my life
Finding my own ways around my silly brain.
I’m really good at
I was pretty good at photography, cooking, baking, growing things, building things, fixing things.
The six things I could never do without
Free time
Intestinal flora
Plenty of sleep
Natural lighting
Unexplored territory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking. What I am thinking, what is earnest, what is irrational.

Mental illness and genetic disorders / eugenics.

How intelligence is weaponized and used fallaciously.




Violence* culture.

Underhandedness and logical fallacies.


What doesn't cause stratification, how, where, and why bigotry is encouraged and reinforced by most every kind of person.

How we all have blood on our hands.

How the biological world becomes more vibrant and complex, faster than we can study it.

Whether it's more important to be primarily useful or expressive.

How my thoughts are affected by my environment and my body.
You should message me if
I'm going to ignore "Hey" and anything of that sort.

You should message me if you never say "politically correct". If you identify racism, sexism, cissexism, ableism, ageism, classism, slavery, and queerphobia. If you're vegan or vegetarian. If you're feminist.

If you like science, art, and/or math. If you could maybe help me look like less of a slob. If you find my paralysing fear of gorgeous people is endearing.

And here is a Fetlife: