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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Working on Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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AMAB, he/him/his work fine. Demiromantic. I am attracted more to femininity and androgyny. I will respect your pronouns my best-est.

Depression, autism, social anxiety. I am open about my disabilities so that other people can better navigate me. If these somehow make me seem burdensome or less enriching as a person, then I didn't want to talk to you anyways.

By extension, I'm mental-illness-friendly!

I'm feminist as I can be.

Veganism/vegetarianism are kind of important to me.

I have a lot of personal growth to do, and I'm probably in too much of a hurry to do it.

If I don't get back to you right away, it doesn't necessarily mean I hate you. I tend to have to wait for the right mood to engage with people. But then, sometimes, I also won't respond because I have no energy to put into my interactions. Sometimes, still, I don't think there's anything we have to talk about.
What I’m doing with my life
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Finding my own ways around my silly brain.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I was pretty good at photography, cooking, baking, growing things, building things, fixing things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Human Environment, I am Legend, Flatland, Animal Farm, The Little Prince, Winnie The Pooh, The Dark Tower, The Legend of the 10 Elemental Masters, The Hobbit/LOTR, Преступление И Наказание, the Dungeons and Dragons Monster Manual. I'm very much an instructional/non-fiction personality; I frequent cookbooks, textbooks, scientific publications, and encyclopedias. :B

Movies: The Life Aquatic, The Room, Persepolis, Ladyhawke, Wizard People Dear Reader, FLCL (right?), Being John Malkovich, Naked Lunch, Watership Down, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Milo and Otis, The Truman Show, Lost in Translation, Waking Life, All Dogs Go to Heaven, Fern Gully, Dünyayı Kurtaran Adam, Shortbus, Harold and Maude, all those Miyazaki's.

Shows: Tim and Eric Awesome Show Great Job, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Adventure Time, Star Trek (most), Initial D, X Files, Home Movies, Yakitate Japan, The Boondocks, The Venture Brothers, Moral Orel, The Office, The Power Puff Girls, Archer.

Music: Iron and Wine, Final Fantasy, Sigur Ros, Regina Spektor, Ratatat, Caribou, The Mountain Goats, The Shins, Dirty Projectors, Lemon Jelly, The Books, Cake, Massive Attack. I don't believe I listen to or feel music in quite the ordinary way. I sometimes nostalgia trip on old videogame music.

Food (vegan): Bread, breakfast cereal, tempeh, pizza, curry, dumplings, smoothies, whatever can be wrapped in a flour tortilla. I'm trying to give up sweets, even though I'm crazy about them. I'm pretty good at making vegan and/or gluten free cookies. Most of the food I eat, I make myself. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Free time
Intestinal flora
Plenty of sleep
Natural lighting
Unexplored territory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking. What I am thinking, what is earnest, what is irrational.

Mental illness and genetic disorders / eugenics.

How intelligence is weaponized and used fallaciously.




Violence* culture.

Underhandedness and logical fallacies.


What doesn't cause stratification, how, where, and why bigotry is encouraged and reinforced by most every kind of person.

How we all have blood on our hands.

How the biological world becomes more vibrant and complex, faster than we can study it.

Whether it's more important to be primarily useful or expressive.

How my thoughts are affected by my environment and my body.
You should message me if
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I'm sorry, but I'm going to ignore "Hey."

You should message me if you never say "politically correct". If you identify racism, sexism, cissexism, ableism, ageism, classism, slavery, and queerphobia. If you're vegan or vegetarian. If you're feminist.

If you like science, art, and/or math. If you could maybe help me look like less of a slob. If you find my paralysing fear of gorgeous people is endearing.