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25 Portland, ME Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Mar 3
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Seeing Someone
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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AMAB, he/him/his work fine. My sexual orientation is erratic, unfortunately. I will respect your pronouns my bestest.

I am in urgent need of snuggles from mindful people.

Casual sex only happens with cool folk whom I could be friends with.

I've got ASD and depression.

The aspergers part, in part, means I have no instincts for eye contact, I'm afraid to touch people who I'm not already intimate with, and I have no idea what people think about me.

The depression part means that my passions and hobbies have been stripped away from me, I don't have energy to reach out and make plans with the people I love, and I don't know when I'll get myself back.

If that's a problem: there's the internet door.

By extension, I'm mental-illness-friendly!

I have trouble letting myself out, so I'll sum it up here: cuddly, calm, confused, humanist* pervert..? I'll need to get back to this...

*Privilege doesn't need support.

Oh, put up or shut up right? (contains nsfl images of myself):

I'm feminist as I can be.

Boredom is a huge turn off.

Veganism/vegetarianism are kind of important to me.

I'm open to non-monogamous relationships, but I'm kind of starved for affection right now, and would like a primary partner for a little while (I'm not very gregarious in any case). I can imagine myself fitting into a mostly monogamous relationship, but I really want to explore polyamory with somebody.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've recently had my first relapse of depression since when I was eight years old. It sucks, it's hard to romance people (and just live life in general).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I used to do lots of photography! and baking, and general tinkering.

I guess I'm pretty good at cheering people up?

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Human Environment, I am Legend, Flatland, Animal Farm, The Little Prince, Winnie The Pooh, The Dark Tower, The Legend of the 10 Elemental Masters, The Hobbit/LOTR, Преступление И Наказание, the Dungeons and Dragons Monster Manual. I'm very much an instructional/non-fiction personality; I frequent cookbooks, textbooks, scientific publications, and encyclopedias. :B

Movies: The Life Aquatic, The Room, The Fountain, Persepolis, Ladyhawke, Wizard People Dear Reader, FLCL (right?), Being John Malkovich, Naked Lunch, Watership Down, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Milo and Otis, The Truman Show, Lost in Translation, Waking Life, All Dogs Go to Heaven, Fern Gully, Dünyayı Kurtaran Adam, Shortbus, Harold and Maude, all those Miyazaki's.

Shows: Tim and Eric Awesome Show Great Job, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Adventure Time, Star Trek (most), Initial D, X Files, Home Movies, Yakitate Japan, The Boondocks, The Venture Brothers, Moral Orel, The Office, The Power Puff Girls, Archer.

Music: Iron and Wine, Final Fantasy, Sigur Ros, Regina Spektor, Ratatat, Caribou, The Mountain Goats, The Shins, Dirty Projectors, Lemon Jelly, The Books, Cake, Massive Attack. I don't believe I listen to or feel music in quite the ordinary way. I sometimes nostalgia trip on old videogame music.

Food (vegan): Bread, breakfast cereal, tempeh, pizza, curry, dumplings, smoothies, whatever can be wrapped in a flour tortilla. I'm trying to give up sweets, even though I'm crazy about them. I'm pretty good at making vegan and/or gluten free cookies. Most of the food I eat, I make myself. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Free time
Intestinal flora
Plenty of sleep
Natural lighting
Unexplored territory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking. What I am thinking, what is earnest, what is irrational.

Mental illness and genetic disorders.

How intelligence is weaponized and used fallaciously.


Violence* culture.

Underhandedness and logical fallacies.

What doesn't cause stratification, how, where, and why bigotry is encouraged and reinforced by most every kind of person.

How we all have blood on our hands.

How the biological world becomes more vibrant and complex, faster than we can study it.

How we bite off more than we can chew.

Whether it's more important to be primarily useful or expressive.

How my thoughts are affected by my environment and my body.
You should message me if
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If you don't have a problem with racist jokes (except maybe about white people), then we aren't going to date, nor bone, nor be friends.

You should message me if you never say "politically correct". If you get that conversation requires both give and take, and admit to neglect of this sometimes. If you identify racism, sexism, cissexism, ableism, ageism, classism, and queerphobia. If you're vegan or vegetarian. If you're feminist.

If you like science, art, and/or math. If you like deep and personal conversation with somebody you trust. If you can have a philosophical conversation even though you might think it's hokey or pointless. If you think we would learn from each other. If you could maybe help me look like less of a slob. If you find my paralysing fear of gorgeous people is endearing.

I'm just ga-ga for girls in short hair <- but this is only encouragement.

If I don't get back to you right away, it doesn't necessarily mean I hate you. I tend to have to wait for the right mood to engage with people.